Mr Carraway
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I sometimes pity the guys on here who make threads seeking validation (seen some lately so I decided to chime in). Let me share my story with you guys and the one thing I have learned about success.
Growing up I thought that people were inherently good and wanted what was the best for each other. One day a guy becomes successful and his doubters and enemies will just shake hands with him, smile, and they will have a drink together with the past forgiven. I was being very naive.
Think about it, have you ever tried to take action and do something with your life? Anything to better your situation. Then when you end up telling people the reaction you get is "man don't bother you can't do it" and stuff like "you won't make it, this and that will stand in your way".
Why do they do this?
Well, it is quite simple. Success is something wanted by many but obtained by few. Most people will not be successful, most people won't make it, and a good number will live a life of misery. Some will descend into living their own life and making the most of it while others will actively try to sabotage others. You see this with raging feminists and ****blockers all the time. You see it on forums with trolls, detectives, and other members.
You see it mainly in pickup/dating.
Whether it is race, height, or anything, guys will tell someone that they will not be able to obtain success, I see it on forums all the time.
Why is this?
Because most men are not and never will be successful with women, your average joe won't hit double digits when it comes to women. To them, it hurts to see another guy having success with women. The guy doesn't serve as a success story or inspiration to show them that they can achieve greatness, he stands as someone who shows them how pathetic they truly are compared to him. The other guys just can't help but feel envy.
BUT WAIT, now are you telling me there are programs, systems, and people out there who are willing to give guys advice to be successful with women?
NO WAY JOSE!
Because now these lonely guys who suck with women have to see more and more and more men become successful with girls while they fade away in the loneliness.
So you see all this negative material out there like short guys are screwed, Asian guys can't get White girls, or if you aren't a tall and handsome White guy then you are screwed. Because people cannot handle others being successful!
It gets even worse if the guy being success isn't attractive or rich, because now the incels have absolutely no excuse.
So what is a man to do?
In my experience I have learned that it is better to conceal your intentions. Don't let the world know you want to date beautiful model blondes or sleep with the beauties of Brazil. Just do it and be quiet about it. When people hear of your plans you will notice quite a lot of them will try to foil them and actively call you out for it in public.
And realize that when success comes, you must deal with the criticism.
People will say the girls you are dating are nothing special, the girls you are with are just desperate, you just got lucky, you are dating the easy girls, etc.
Some people will try their best to dig up dirt on you and undermine your accomplishments.
We see it all the time on the forums.
Growing up I thought that people were inherently good and wanted what was the best for each other. One day a guy becomes successful and his doubters and enemies will just shake hands with him, smile, and they will have a drink together with the past forgiven. I was being very naive.
Think about it, have you ever tried to take action and do something with your life? Anything to better your situation. Then when you end up telling people the reaction you get is "man don't bother you can't do it" and stuff like "you won't make it, this and that will stand in your way".
Why do they do this?
Well, it is quite simple. Success is something wanted by many but obtained by few. Most people will not be successful, most people won't make it, and a good number will live a life of misery. Some will descend into living their own life and making the most of it while others will actively try to sabotage others. You see this with raging feminists and ****blockers all the time. You see it on forums with trolls, detectives, and other members.
You see it mainly in pickup/dating.
Whether it is race, height, or anything, guys will tell someone that they will not be able to obtain success, I see it on forums all the time.
Why is this?
Because most men are not and never will be successful with women, your average joe won't hit double digits when it comes to women. To them, it hurts to see another guy having success with women. The guy doesn't serve as a success story or inspiration to show them that they can achieve greatness, he stands as someone who shows them how pathetic they truly are compared to him. The other guys just can't help but feel envy.
BUT WAIT, now are you telling me there are programs, systems, and people out there who are willing to give guys advice to be successful with women?
NO WAY JOSE!
Because now these lonely guys who suck with women have to see more and more and more men become successful with girls while they fade away in the loneliness.
So you see all this negative material out there like short guys are screwed, Asian guys can't get White girls, or if you aren't a tall and handsome White guy then you are screwed. Because people cannot handle others being successful!
It gets even worse if the guy being success isn't attractive or rich, because now the incels have absolutely no excuse.
So what is a man to do?
In my experience I have learned that it is better to conceal your intentions. Don't let the world know you want to date beautiful model blondes or sleep with the beauties of Brazil. Just do it and be quiet about it. When people hear of your plans you will notice quite a lot of them will try to foil them and actively call you out for it in public.
And realize that when success comes, you must deal with the criticism.
People will say the girls you are dating are nothing special, the girls you are with are just desperate, you just got lucky, you are dating the easy girls, etc.
Some people will try their best to dig up dirt on you and undermine your accomplishments.
We see it all the time on the forums.