"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Most Obnoxious Thread Starters: Burroughs or Naughty Ninja

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rhythmic

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Obnoxious and useless are different things.

I haven't seen any from Burroughs that I remember, I've seen quite a bit from NN and it's usually entertaining (so not obnoxious) and informative especially if you're new to the online thing, so not useless.

Odd thread this
 

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Balls, I turned 25 last week. Guess I'll be seeing his stuff more now....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GotED? said:
Who starts the most useless threads on SS? :cuss: :cuss:
you can have only 10 posts/24 hrs to avoid spaming the forum with cr@p and people can decide by their experience and common sense which thread are worth reading and which threads are not

if those two guys are nothing but virgin trolls pretending they got a cool life, sooner or later, they will be discovered, banned or at least people will stop responding to their threads

you have to realize people are smart enough for their own good

and you just wasted your daily quota on nonsense
 
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