You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wrong mindset, from the very beginning. These type of women know exactly what they are doing and CAN help themselves. Miscarriages be damned, that is not an excuse.captain55 said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
IDK man..its been 6 weeks since we talked and i feel like she's no longer angry at me and the past is water under the bridge. . Therefore I felt like .If she was still sexually attracted to me, she would have caught feelings for me again today...but she didn't.expos said:
. Looking at pictures of myself, I haven't changed much. IF anything I look better. wtfAgree with you but thats not what I meant. I meant that if a chick breaks up with you out of anger, usually by the two months mark of no contact she's probably cooled off enough to where you have a chance to get back in her pants again.astrn said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.