"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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captain55 said:
Guys...I used to spend hours up at night wondering WHY this chick was so emotional and so ****ed up, going out of my way to help her
Wrong mindset, from the very beginning. These type of women know exactly what they are doing and CAN help themselves. Miscarriages be damned, that is not an excuse.

Never, ever put a woman on a pedestal. The minute they know you think about them that much, the more they abuse you. Learn about power shifts, indifference, and saying NO more often.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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expos said:
Wrong mindset, from the very beginning. These type of women know exactly what they are doing and CAN help themselves. Miscarriages be damned, that is not an excuse.

Never, ever put a woman on a pedestal. The minute they know you think about them that much, the more they abuse you. Learn about power shifts, indifference, and saying NO more often.
IDK man..its been 6 weeks since we talked and i feel like she's no longer angry at me and the past is water under the bridge. . Therefore I felt like .If she was still sexually attracted to me, she would have caught feelings for me again today...but she didn't.

5 months ago she would get wet just kissing her, now she doesn't even find me attractive:whistle: . Looking at pictures of myself, I haven't changed much. IF anything I look better. wtf
 

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Well one thing that I learned hard way is if a woman is not love, like, angry, hate or any kind of feeling towards you anymore that means she FEELS NOTHING for you! Just like a stranger! That means case closed... Permanently!
 

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astrn said:
Well one thing that I learned hard way is if a woman is not love, like, angry, hate or any kind of feeling towards you anymore that means she FEELS NOTHING for you! Just like a stranger! That means case closed... Permanently!
Agree with you but thats not what I meant. I meant that if a chick breaks up with you out of anger, usually by the two months mark of no contact she's probably cooled off enough to where you have a chance to get back in her pants again.
 

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So today I finally ask her what is it with kevin, I mean I understand he took your virginirty but most chicks don't still have feelings for the guy who took their virginity 8 years later.
Why in the world did you ask her about him? You clearly have no idea what you're doing and if you manage to get another girl you'll f*** it up as well. You need to seriously up your game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LMFAO said:
Why in the world did you ask her about him? You clearly have no idea what you're doing and if you manage to get another girl you'll f*** it up as well. You need to seriously up your game.
wouldn't of mattered...she didn't want me back anyways.
 

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This forum can be so fu**** depressing at times
 
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