Most guys aren't horny enough

[evansblue]

When I eye a cute girl walking in the mall the first thing that immediately pops into my head is "I wonder what she looks like naked." Then I walk up to her and start a conversation. 1 or 2 minutes, try to grab the number and I'm out of there.

I don't understand how "anxiety" can keep a guy from approaching. For me it's more of an adrenaline rush. I want to be noticed by this girl, and enjoy the chess game of the courting process.

Yesterday I approached 6 girls at the mall, and got 4 numbers. 3 of them have responded back. Now you add that to the mix of numbers I already have and it's a constant influx of texting back and forth, weighing my options and trying to decide which of those has the highest probability of putting out. It's a lot of fun, and the reason I do it is because I'm a horny guy with fire in my loins and an appetite for sex.

I get rejected all the time. Once, sometimes twice a day. What really amazes me about pickup is how I'll get shot down by a HB 7, and 10 minutes later a HB 9 will readily give me her number. That's why I enjoy the game - you never know how it's going to turn out and can't predict what a girl will do.

The over analyzing is the #1 killer in this forum.

 

[Chamber36]

good advice

 

[bigneil]

Good point about the 7's versus 9's.

Now imagine if you had one-itis for a 7 who rejected you, and weren't approaching 9's at all.

I've noticed how women who are genuinely pretty (HB8.5+) don't seem to have the need to have some younger boy-toy on their arm to prove themselves. They are actually easier to please in terms in many cases.

 

[Blackmm]

Most guys probably masturbate too much. This causes a dip in natural testosterone over time leading to lack of horniness.

Back in caveman days, man would just grab the female he wanted and borrowing that there weren't any other alpha males around, he would just have her way with her.

 

[bigneil]

I'm not sure if conveying horniness is the key to seduction.

 

[Tyson420]

its part of it

 

[evansblue]

And the over analyzing begins...

 

[spinaroonie]

Funny to see guys still crowing about getting numbers.

Girls give out numbers like candy on Halloween.

Let us know when you bang them.

 

[Chamber36]

numbers are easy, i just don't know what to do with the numbers.

 

[sexysuave]

Haha, good advice actually, I kinda like it. As someone said, guys probably masturbate too much. I've heard and read about even married men who were so into porn that it's more satisfying for them than actually having sex with their wife. This is not good, and even a close friend of mine who is married is going through "marriage" troubles and sex is one of them. He says he is just "not that into it anymore" and that "there is always porn". Big mistake, guys should really lay off porn.

This is of course easier said than done, as it's almost like a drug for most people when you need that "quick fix". You might be sitting around horny, and you know all it takes is a few minutes to watch some videos online and get your self off. And you always think or say to your self "ok, this is it, next week I'll stop looking this stuff up", but if keeps happening

I've stopped watching porn alltogether by a strange circumstance. Pretty much, I like a lot of sex, and if for whatever reason I can't see my girlfriend that day, I'll probably masturbate a couple of times. On days when I see my girlfriend, I'm doing her, a few times. Here is how I stopped watching porn completely: I had 2 laptops, one for work, and another personal laptop computer that I would do all my other stuff on (inlcuding you tube and music and videos and,, porn here and there). Well, my personal laptop got the "blue screen of death" and died on me. I took it in to fix it and they told me its shot, just get a new one. Now, I CAN NOT look at porn on my work lap top. I know that it could be monitored if someone chose to watch it and watching porn would be unacceptable. So I pretty much had to stop watchign it as I didn't have my personal computer and would just carry my work laptop around. I was busy enough that I didn't have time to really go look for a new laptop for about a month or so, and obviously never watched porn even once during that time, and guess what, I survived lol. After I had some time to search for laptops, I thought to my self, "this is workign out pretty good so far, I can do anythign else I want for the most part on my work laptop, and it also kept me from watching any kind of porn alltogether. Why would I spend money on a new laptop (not that the money is a big issue), to only be able to allow me to do ONE extra thing, and a thing that is counter-productive! I knew that if I got another laptop I would eventually get suckered in and start watchign a few videos here and there. So I just kept my work laptop and I haven't watched ANY porn since, none at all! And it feels pretty damn good! I NEVER have issues when I'm "not in a mood" if my girl is around. Pretty much, the only days that we dont' have sex is when she is on her period, other than that, it's always game time . And porn messes up a lot of guys because they start seeing some extreme videos and then sex with their girlfriend is not the same. ONce you lay off porn alltogether, your own sex life becomes a lot more special.

Anyway, got way off topic, but to get back on the topic, good advice! I hope you are following through and closing out these numbers! All of them! Some guys are saying "numbers don't mean anything",, yeah, they don't mean anythign if you don't do anythign with them, but I was in your shoes before and if you are consistent and consitantly picking up and following up and setting up meetings and inviting girls to hang out and come over and what not, and you have a game plan, pretty soon you will get to the point where you have MORE GIRLS to see than you have TIME to see them all! And that is a sweet place to be and definitely one of those QUALITY problems lol. So keep it up and keep following through.. don't ever get a number that you don't follow up on and try to set something up!! This is why I tell a lot of guys to move to a bigger city. If you live in a small hick town, you can't really do this, as everyone knows everyone, but I've lived in some HUGE cities, and man, it is SOOO much easier to do this kinda stuff. Just keep following through!!

 

[Alle_Gory]

That's because they masturbate and ruin that edge they naturally have.

 

[Kenny Powers]

dude i know exactly what you mean. I'm not great at the game, but i love doing it. I often have to force myself to get out and hit on girls and do rely mainly on night game and alcohol too much, but once i'm in the zone its f-ing fun. It's challenging in a fun way (like a video game or puzzle haha) and highly unpredictable. Also can lead to make out or sex which just adds to the fun

But way too many guys just don't seem to get joy out of chasing girls. I love eye fuucking and holding eye contact with girls randomly in public. Also when i see a hot girl go by I always turn to my friends and am like "dammn you see her, i would do terrible things to that girl, i would tear that ass up, etc." For some reason I'm almost always the one saying shiit like that. I dont if its cause im just more horny or perverted haha.

More dudes just need to loosen up with girls and have fun. I'm still working on my game and rarely pull chicks from bars and parties but i still have a good time flirting and getting digits.

 

[DonGorgon]

um most guys are too horny which is why women have soooo much power..

 

[st_99]

um most guys are too horny which is why women have soooo much power..

Thread Closed.

 

[mrRuckus]

Most guys probably masturbate too much. This causes a dip in natural testosterone over time leading to lack of horniness.

What is your source? Where does this testosterone vanish to? Why did you modify testosterone with "natural?"



... And if i'm not horny, why would I care about getting girls so much? I think it's a good thing not to be horny because then you're not out there making decisions based on need and emotion.

 

[bigneil]

um most guys are too horny which is why women have soooo much power..

Exactly. If you had all the women you wanted you'd be getting laid 3 times a day, so you'd be less needy/horny.

I highly doubt any women have ever used the word "horny" when describing what they liked about a man they just met.

 

[Solomon]

The over analyzing is the #1 killer in this forum.

And there you have it

But tell that to the KBJ and Theorists and they'll crucify you, hence their no FR's here anymore

a shame

 

[pdx1138]

agreed, numbers don't mean much in reality....but it's a nice ego booster if nothing else comes of it.

 

[Willis]

im probaly not horny enough. i jack off almost twice a day.. but talking to chicks can be draining and i know it wont lead anywhere if i do approach..

if im the 74839293878098 guy to approach the chick, what makes me special? nothing really..im just another number.

 

[Tyson420]

I'm not going to stop jacking off. *shrug*