suavesuave
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Met this clubbing girl. Had first date. I noticed she likes me to pay for everything. How should I effectively handle and bed her?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
most effective way - clubbing girl
- Thread starter suavesuave
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've brought her food, now you're entitled to club her over the head and drag her back to your cave for some lovin'.suavesuave said:
If you don't like that approach, stock up some good drugs and/or alcohol and invite her over. That's the most effective way to a club chick's panties.
SharinganUser
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Clubbing a girl is effective, but she might end up with a concusion.
suavesuave
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OK thanks
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MisterMcGee
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o.o
BudBundi
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I saw the title of this thread and immediately thought "Clubbing?.... Like seals?"