Most cute girls everywhere are already taken

[Tictac]

You don't 'shop' for a girlfriend.

You attract women based upon who you are and what you do.

Wise up.

 

[latino158]

Exactly. Women are very much into looks, but that doesn't necessarily mean that the textbook handsome guy (or more handsome guy) ALWAYS wins. Her personal tastes in men affect whether there is "chemistry" or not.

As I've said many times, the guy might look like Shrek to YOU, but if she finds his looks (or look) attractive, that's all that matters.

yep

I never said that just because a guy happens to be good looking, then he deserves to have a cute girl more than any other guy who happens to be average or below

Women do like looks, they do find some men to be attractive based on appearance alone, but doesn't mean she will enter in a relationship with him, she just finds you cute or good looking, and that is all

you can bet, she has seen guys in the world, who are much better looking anyway

it doesn't surprise me that their boyfriends are plain looking guys, because looks are not everything in a relationship

 

[bigneil]

I doubt that (the OP is better looking than 95% of men).

Agreed. I stopped reading right then. Either way, it's about being more attractive than the other men, not about being better looking.

Remember that unless a man is gay, he really can't judge his own looks. Only women he is attracted to can, and if women he is attracted to think he is great looking, he wouldn't have a problem. When you become good looking (an emergent property of health), women will let you know.

It's mainly about the local supply of women versus men.

Two months in California and, while I get just as many numbers and have the same chemistry upon interacting with them, all I got was excuses from girls about how busy they are. Meanwhile my Texas girl has been getting on a plane (and later a bus) to travel for hours just to see me. She has maintained a 3 month long distance relationship. The other day she texted that "we needed to talk", so I was bracing myself. She wanted to tell me I don't have sex with her enough! The reason is that she's in the same situation as me where she's at in Austin - where good men are rare.

If you are in a good area already, then the focus has to be on your health and diet.

She'll settle for whichever guy is the most persistent.

More likely, she'll pursue the next-most-attractive man in the pipeline.

 

[skinnyguy]

1) women care a whole lot about looks. They go on online dating websites and just pick the hottest guy to have sex with

2) yes, many of the cute ones who are available are BPD. Or have a kid. Dating in your 30's is worse than prison

3) even fat chicks have it good. Men are so desperate these days that they will take anything

 

[LMFAO]

3) even fat chicks have it good. Men are so desperate these days that they will take anything

Men who are beta fags, yes.

 

[LuckyStrike88]

IF you cannot even know for sure, if a girl is single or not, by she giving you looks and smiles, what are your chances with girls who don't even look at you, NONE

THIS IS WHY, whenever you approach a girl, you go from alpha to beta, INSTANTLY, you are at her mercy, your pride as man depends now on her decision and response, is the most beta thing to do, SHE KNOWS VERY WELL THAT YOU WANT TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS

IF she says, I have a boyfriend, doesn't matter of she does or not, YOU LOST your pride as a man

Very narrow minded. Do you actually believe there is no way of walking up to a woman without giving up your power?

 

[TheException]

You're a fool. Women are into looks just as much as guys

Looks are everything for men. No one wants to have an average looking girlfriend. Whereas, a woman won't necessarily care about having an average looking boyfriend.

Men = Need physical attractiveness

Women = Need VALUE/Status....not necessarily looks.

This is an obvious point. If you don't understand this, then you don't understand intergender dynamics.

 

[LuckyStrike88]

Looks are everything for men. No one wants to have an average looking girlfriend. Whereas, a woman won't necessarily care about having an average looking boyfriend.

Men = Need physical attractiveness

Women = Need VALUE/Status....not necessarily looks.

This is an obvious point. If you don't understand this, then you don't understand intergender dynamics.

This equation causes a deathtrap for most men.

1. Man approves woman completely on looks.
2. Man approaches woman with basically a sign in his hands stating this.
3. Woman instantly recognizes this and perceives him as lower value.
4. No attraction. No chance.