"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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'Most creative'/ 'Best date' you've done

Penguinplayer

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As you know in the archives lie threads along the lines of 'your smoothest move', 'worst afc moment'; etc. Yet there isn't one about actual dates people have been on. I thought for the general interest of us HS guys on this forum that we all post a sucessful date we planned and went through with.

*Note; This does not mean the best time you went to a party and hooked up with that HB9 in your physics class.
What I aim to do here is have a collection of personal experiences on actual dates you guys have been on. They can be from your first date to your upteenth date. Whether your date ended with a kiss or you having to sneak through the window of your bedroom back into your house. Doesn't matter if it was the usual cine and dine to a walk through the woods.

I realise in the ever important DJ bible there is a list of types of dates, but here people could relate there best planned outings or outings that went spetacularly etc.

Not only then can we have a great record of what you guys have been upto, but also give inspiration/ feedback on possible ideas to each other. Lets show each other what were cabaple of! Big yourselfs up!

(Alternatively you can add a date you managed to screw up, but then that might go under 'worst AFC move' in the archive section)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dannowillbookem

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i was dating a girl who's house we would hangout alot at. she lived in a nice neighborhood and one spring day we took a really long walk around the neighborhood barefoot. it was so clean and sunny and we were laughing and waving at smiling neighbors.

it was like a beatles song.


and then im kinda dating a girl (shes out of town for the summer) who would always take her mums keys at like 1 am and pick me up in her mums car and we'd go back to her house, lay on her roof drink beer and fool around.

good times.
 

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My favorite date...

We went to this place called "The Amazing Pizza Machine". There was bumper cars, go karts, arcades, mini bowling, mini golft, butt loads of shiz there. We had a friggin' blast. I don't think that smile left her face the entire night.
 

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Skilla_Staz, you are my soul-mate, that kind of thing is my best date too.
Oh, man, this **** is surreal with you. Coincidences allthe goddamn time!
 

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Guys this is excellant!
Skilla_Staz, very good idea. Gotta try that!

Mine has to be... Phoned her up, TOLD her I was taking her on a date, and meet her in the local town. (First date as an apprentice DJ)
Took her to this mingolf place and told I would buy her something if she beat me! I won but bought her an ice cream anyway. Smiles all round, and we were laughing the whole time.
If its an 'action' date the kino comes more naturally and I think your more at ease with each other and with yourself, then just making convo at a dinner table.

Keep them comming!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im 18(out of high school) but happened to glance back to the high school DJs are doing these days. She was a HB 8.5,REALLY CUTE,she came into my job I helped her out,got the digits and called her up two days later and set up a date for mini golf. Well I picked her up and took her to some mini golf,it was a blast she sucked and knocked a ball into the water,I went to get it and I hit my head on a bridge trying to stand back up,she laughed hard,from there it was easy money. After the mini golf we went to a mall near by to look around(another great idea,only buy her something if its sexual though),and back to her house. Well needless to say she invited me inside,I met all 10 of her brothers and sisters. Now I could have nailed her on the spot but there were too many siblings running around so we just made out and I felt up on her for a good hour. Ah my DJ rookie days,I wouldnt trade those for the world.
 

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Well I was seeing a girl who's dad has 911 turbo. My buddy has a nasty little spiced up civiv( the b16 vtec one, put's down ~320whp). We raced around the middle of nowhere at like 2:30 in the morning. It was a blast till we got to the starits since we're limited by the tires to 220 Km/h. We all race ******* most of the time so it was a hell of an experiance. Plus we didint do much sleeping after that :D
 

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I recently took a girl up to the roof of my old middle school at night, just to mess around. This girl is into all that romantic sh1t, so she loved it. We were laying down and she saw her first shooting star ever with me. Lame, I don't care, but we ended up making out.
 

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I have never seen a shooting star. I totally want to see one.
 

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Mine was when this girl gave me her number and less than 24 hours laters I was popping her cherry hahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahha

True story!

I dont do dates, I smoke buds and invite people to come along.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Broke into an abandoned Air Force radar tower and climbed it to the top in the dark and just hung out up there looking around at ****. The climb was dark and scary so she clung pretty close, and the view was amazing.

Nothing is more exciting to a woman than breaking the law.
 

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Hahaha mine's pretty cliche'.

It was my first date with this HB7.5 and from what I learned from her she LOVED the beach...ironically so did I so I took her to santa monica pier and the pieces began to fall into place from there. The bus didn't show up for 10~15 minutes so we walked to the beach (which took 40+ minutes, but used kino and c/f most of the way). Ate, walked on the shores barefoot, went on all the rides like Viking and the roller coaster, then went on the FERRIS WHEEL, perfect place to kissclose fellas. :)
 

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man that sounded fantastic, j8snx1. any future with that girl? A second date?

UlitimateScoundral, we'll bear that advice in mind!

Guys, keep them comming, don't be shy.
 

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I wish Santa Cruz beach boardwalk was closer to Sacramento....I would be able to use the beach to my advantage to the extreme. Never done a beach date,anyone with some beach date expierences please put some input in,any input would be appreciated.
 

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We went down to a dump to shoot rats and watch freight trains go by.
No, that was Sean Penn in Sweet and Lowdown by Woody Allen.

Brilliant movie BTW.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I met this girl[HB9, hottest girl I've gotten with] in California at an art camp last summer, but couldnt make a move cause she loved her boyfriend of the time.
I went back out to Cali for a Engineering camp this summer, and it was close enough for a meetup between us, and she was single :).
So the first time I saw her out there we went to San Fran. We walked around all day, got lost, laughed at the crazy bums [the one with tourettes was a riot lol] and then we went and spent the last 1.5 hrs sitting on the grass in Union Square talking.
It was probably my best date ever cause it was my first time seeing her in a year, and we held a 4 hour conversation the whole time. and we made out in the middle of a park.

other than that, I love taking girls out for different kinds of food. I'm white as hell[been called "fabulously white"] but i take girls out for Korean food and Sushi and stuff, and 90% of the time they love it.
 

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UltimateScoundrel said:
Broke into an abandoned Air Force radar tower and climbed it to the top in the dark and just hung out up there looking around at ****. The climb was dark and scary so she clung pretty close, and the view was amazing.

Nothing is more exciting to a woman than breaking the law.

Seems like the movie scene from Pearl Harbor. lol.;)
 

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Beach date. There is a huge rock/cliff overlooking the ocean not too far from my house. I called the girl up the day before and said i will pick you up tomorrow at 9, be ready, and wear sneakers. She was all excited, and I wouldn't tell her where we were going.

She is a "girly-girl", no sports or anything. The cool thing about this place is you have to really climb up this rock to get to the top, and it can be kinda difficult. Even though she is very girly, she loved it, and has told so many people about it. We just sat up there and talked for a while, with lots of kissing in between.

cost me nothing, and went back to her house and got laid. A lot of girls love those beach dates. The view was awesome.
 

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I've never done anything mildly creative, but bump, because I love this thread.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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