"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most common problems with women.....
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- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
A rich doctor has nothing to provide but a nice house and a nice car. Nothing a 9 can't take away through a divorce or (even if not divorced) emotional and sexual unavailability. Hugh Hefner and Howard Hughes' ambition and extravagant personalities and lifestyles (which were an extension of their personalities - ingenius business excursions and social innovations) are what landed them their women. Their personalities tipped them to the opposite end of the scale. They were 9s to their women. We are all animals - men and women the same. A 6 on the personality/looks scale is not enough to satisfy a 9 woman for long. Hughes and Hefner probably could have kept their women but were eventually unavailable due to their lifestyles.Vulpine said:
A 9 will seek out other 9s through cheating or divorce. Examples:
Anna Nicole Smith
Lisa Marie Presley
And if she doesn't, she still not be attached to your hip but rather use you as a tool.
Yep, a tool.
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Tons of money, but long gone are the days when his personality and looks tip him to her favor.
They were mismatched.
If a guy acted like a girl, he'd be the whiniest, stupidest, faggiest, irrational idiot on the block. You could never have a mature, intellectual conversation with one. So, if you look at most girls objectively, that's exactly what they are. FEMALE PHAGS.
But when girls do all the same shyt routinely, somehow it's "cute," not utterly retarded and ghey. Sp, why doesn't NOW whine about this gender double-standard?
BobFuest
Senior Don Juan
haha well that is true. I think i am about to my limit. we will see. My experiment is not yet over.Sinistar said:
Good or bad, the experience is what makes it all worth it.If it doesnt work out I learned that she is not the woman for me hahah Or at the most basic level that type is not what I am looking for. I look forward to either outcome. see you later"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.