"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most common break-up excuse by girls?

LuckyStrike88

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Just read it in a post here, have gotten it a couple times before in the past and have seen girls say it to other guys.

"I have to work on myself, i am not ready to be in a relationship right now."

Seems to be an overused reason for breaking up that is never really the truth, but caused by her lack of attraction.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Projection - "That as$holecheated on me so I had to breakup with him." Hamster conscience :" No actually, you cheated on him and accused him of doing that first"
Projection - "He just wanted me for sex"Hamster conscience :" You just wanted him for sex, now that you've tasted his *** multiple times you are just looking for a new ****a"
 

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"I'm so used to dealing with fvckboys that I wouldn't know a real man." Translation, "I've been fvcking around with di*khead after di*khead, and wonder why it doesn't work. Ofcourse it isn't my s**t taste in men, it's everyone else's fault. Feel sorry for me."
 

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He cheated on me - He fvcked one of my friends or coworkers when I was being a b*tch to him. But I'd take that @sshole back in a second because it secretly makes me wet.

He treated me badly - He got tired of putting up with my sh*t and stood up for himself.

He didn't give me "that feeling" anymore - I got bored with him and fvcked his best friend.

He was too nice, not nice enough, my parents didn't like him, my friends didn't like him, we didn't "click" anymore, etc. - I lost interest but we still "talk" (I still have him as my orbiter B*tch in case I need something, or I change my mind).

I'm just not ready for a relationship right now - I'm not ready for a relationship with you, because I'm not into you.

I broke up with him for good - Actually, he broke up with me or he's been blowing me off/acting distant. But I'm not willing to accept the fact that I was dumped so I'm telling everyone that I left him. Now I must post some lame quote on my FB wall about accepting things and moving on.
 
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There are a million and one lines excuses a woman that a women can use but 99.9% of them are saying you don't make her tingle enough and she doesn't have the fear of losing you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I... It's Just that I.... I Just need some space"

You know it's fvcked when your hear that one lol.
 

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I tend to notice that its just flakes and then they regret it afterwards. Next thing I know, they throw themselves at you and it's like "*****, who do you think I am? You had your chance, now get to the back of the line again."

Kinda stupid to be quite honest.
 

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MidnightCity said:
the reason she gives for a breakup does not matter

it is merely the easiest out she can grab for to drop a man.

the common theme in most mens (read: betas) breakups is that the girl lost interest in him. for those of you who need your hand held, this means she has lost any sexual desire she might have had for you. it is the equivalent of a mans girlfriend getting fat, ugly, and acting like a shrew.

if a woman should ever "break up" with you, it should be because you dont invest in her the way she tries to get you to and you move on to the next one. not because youre such a boring loser who has no idea how to keep the ***** on her toes and bends over backwards for her so much that you literally do nothing to make her wet and then tries to "win her back"

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Hello there captain obvious, seems you are a bit off topic here. Yes is loss of interest, obviously. But not investing in her enough should be a reason cmon? You really have no idea what you are talking about do you?

You are referring to most men=betas? in a demeaning way while you just seem quite frustrated yourself. If you're gonna cut off topic and and vent, at least say something useful and don't act like you are some alpha talking because you are clearly not.
 

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The reason a woman gives or has for leaving doesn't matter. She is over the relationship so let her go.

In most cases.. by the time a woman breaks up with a man.. he was already eating sh!t from her for a long time before. Am I right? :crackup:

Women rarely end relationships abruptly. They usually kill it slowly over time with increased disrespect/unavailability and decreased sex and intimacy.

Since most men have no game and no options.. they cling to that ONE woman as long as they can and try to "fix" the relationship to get it back to when things were better. This is just a long way of saying "they eat sh!t and ask for more".

The time to dump a woman is when the sex decreases permanently. All women have their issues and their little mood swings here and there. But if you see more than two weeks pass with deceased sex... its time to have a talk. If she is defensive during that talk.. its time to WALK.

There are just too many women out there to waste your time elevating ONE ungrateful b!tch.

However.. abrupt dumps DO happen. Anytime a woman decides she wants to leave ALWAYS let her go. No woman is worth your dignity. And if a woman IS worth your dignity.. then you don't have any to begin with. :crackup:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The most common excuse used for breakup is as it was said early in this post:

"I need to work on myself right now."

It means they don't want to "think" about you or your needs.
 

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"i need to work on myself"

They usually text this while spooning with their new guy and getting ready to take it balls deep
 

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Any excuse means any one or more of these:

1. You're not that attractive

2. You're not tolerating her bulls**t anymore

3. She found someone better

4. You don't give her the tingles

Case closed. Move on.
 

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"My husband is coming home soon, you have to leave."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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