Byezbozhniy
Don Juan
A bit of a far fetch, but are any of you guys in Moscow??
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Moscow, Russia
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Judging from the amount of replies that this thread got after being up here for over a week, I'm gonna go out on a wild limb and say that there aren't too many fellow Don Juans running their game over in the Third Rome...
Still, I am sure these guys would be more than likely to help you in terms of being hardcore wingmen or just knowledgeable dudes who can teach you more than a thing or two in regards to Pickup and women in general - they are The Moscow Lair!
Official Youtube channel of the Moscow Lair:
http://www.youtube.com/user/MoscowLair
Official website:
www.moscowlair.ru
Hope this helps Byezbozhniy! :yes:
Still, I am sure these guys would be more than likely to help you in terms of being hardcore wingmen or just knowledgeable dudes who can teach you more than a thing or two in regards to Pickup and women in general - they are The Moscow Lair!
Official Youtube channel of the Moscow Lair:
http://www.youtube.com/user/MoscowLair
Official website:
www.moscowlair.ru
Hope this helps Byezbozhniy! :yes:
Moscow Lair? Never heard of it. I spend a huge amount of time in Moscow and never knew that this stuff was used there. Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls. Now, there are some spoiled ones in Moscow. I am talking about real life Ksenia Sobchak types who really do exist. However, they are still a rarity.
If you are Russian why not visit a more provincial town like Samara or Kazan? Kazan is a great town with so many gorgeous and nice girls. I love the beautiful Mosque that highlights that town. Absolutely stunning.
Moscow is a grand city, but I have always seen it as more of a business and media town. A place to make money and blow it on very expensive toys and drinks. I find the ethnic diversity in Moscow to be very interesting, but also very challenging when it comes to girls. As you know, you would not deal with a Chechen girl like you would a Russian. The same goes for a Georgian or Armenian.
If you are Russian why not visit a more provincial town like Samara or Kazan? Kazan is a great town with so many gorgeous and nice girls. I love the beautiful Mosque that highlights that town. Absolutely stunning.
Moscow is a grand city, but I have always seen it as more of a business and media town. A place to make money and blow it on very expensive toys and drinks. I find the ethnic diversity in Moscow to be very interesting, but also very challenging when it comes to girls. As you know, you would not deal with a Chechen girl like you would a Russian. The same goes for a Georgian or Armenian.
I find it surprising you say Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls, I find the exact opposite although most of the Russian girls I've dated the past were away from home studying abroad.. They were insanely spoilt, full of drama, immature pulling all kinds of stunts.BigJimbo said:Moscow Lair? Never heard of it. I spend a huge amount of time in Moscow and never knew that this stuff was used there. Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls. Now, there are some spoiled ones in Moscow. I am talking about real life Ksenia Sobchak types who really do exist. However, they are still a rarity.
If you are Russian why not visit a more provincial town like Samara or Kazan? Kazan is a great town with so many gorgeous and nice girls. I love the beautiful Mosque that highlights that town. Absolutely stunning.
Moscow is a grand city, but I have always seen it as more of a business and media town. A place to make money and blow it on very expensive toys and drinks. I find the ethnic diversity in Moscow to be very interesting, but also very challenging when it comes to girls. As you know, you would not deal with a Chechen girl like you would a Russian. The same goes for a Georgian or Armenian.
They believe the man has to be strong and the one always to chase them no matter what and they should be able to have as many guy friends they want and they're the ones to choose which guy is most suitable for them.
Maybe it's to do with the fact they are abroad and see that things are different that they end up abusing this freedom but I have yet to meet one hot Russian girl who wasn't spoilt in some way or good mannered. They cancel on you last minute because they want to go dancing with their girls (even if they're interested) even if they fear they may lose you cos they believe that if the guy is genuinely interested he'll come back. The man is always expected to pay etc etc
To honest, I'm sick of them and their bad manners. I think it may be related to many of them not having fathers in their lives from a young age so develop even more spoilt women behaviour cos they only ever had women there for them in their lives.
Immigrants don't count. Russian girls live in Russia. The Russian speaking people I see in America are a joke. NOTHING like what you see in Russia. If you want Russian go to Russia. If you want Japanese you go to Japan. If you want Irish you to Ireland.pikachu69 said:I find it surprising you say Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls, I find the exact opposite although most of the Russian girls I've dated the past were away from home studying abroad.. They were insanely spoilt, full of drama, immature pulling all kinds of stunts.
They believe the man has to be strong and the one always to chase them no matter what and they should be able to have as many guy friends they want and they're the ones to choose which guy is most suitable for them.
Maybe it's to do with the fact they are abroad and see that things are different that they end up abusing this freedom but I have yet to meet one hot Russian girl who wasn't spoilt in some way or good mannered. They cancel on you last minute because they want to go dancing with their girls (even if they're interested) even if they fear they may lose you cos they believe that if the guy is genuinely interested he'll come back. The man is always expected to pay etc etc
To honest, I'm sick of them and their bad manners. I think it may be related to many of them not having fathers in their lives from a young age so develop even more spoilt women behaviour cos they only ever had women there for them in their lives.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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RUssian people who go to US are either rich or have connections
which means they're spoiled heaps
if you met a rich western girl i think she'd most likely be spoiled
which means they're spoiled heaps
if you met a rich western girl i think she'd most likely be spoiled