Byezbozhniy
Don Juan
A bit of a far fetch, but are any of you guys in Moscow??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Moscow, Russia
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Judging from the amount of replies that this thread got after being up here for over a week, I'm gonna go out on a wild limb and say that there aren't too many fellow Don Juans running their game over in the Third Rome...
Still, I am sure these guys would be more than likely to help you in terms of being hardcore wingmen or just knowledgeable dudes who can teach you more than a thing or two in regards to Pickup and women in general - they are The Moscow Lair!
Official Youtube channel of the Moscow Lair:
http://www.youtube.com/user/MoscowLair
Official website:
www.moscowlair.ru
Hope this helps Byezbozhniy! :yes:
Still, I am sure these guys would be more than likely to help you in terms of being hardcore wingmen or just knowledgeable dudes who can teach you more than a thing or two in regards to Pickup and women in general - they are The Moscow Lair!
Official Youtube channel of the Moscow Lair:
http://www.youtube.com/user/MoscowLair
Official website:
www.moscowlair.ru
Hope this helps Byezbozhniy! :yes:
Moscow Lair? Never heard of it. I spend a huge amount of time in Moscow and never knew that this stuff was used there. Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls. Now, there are some spoiled ones in Moscow. I am talking about real life Ksenia Sobchak types who really do exist. However, they are still a rarity.
If you are Russian why not visit a more provincial town like Samara or Kazan? Kazan is a great town with so many gorgeous and nice girls. I love the beautiful Mosque that highlights that town. Absolutely stunning.
Moscow is a grand city, but I have always seen it as more of a business and media town. A place to make money and blow it on very expensive toys and drinks. I find the ethnic diversity in Moscow to be very interesting, but also very challenging when it comes to girls. As you know, you would not deal with a Chechen girl like you would a Russian. The same goes for a Georgian or Armenian.
If you are Russian why not visit a more provincial town like Samara or Kazan? Kazan is a great town with so many gorgeous and nice girls. I love the beautiful Mosque that highlights that town. Absolutely stunning.
Moscow is a grand city, but I have always seen it as more of a business and media town. A place to make money and blow it on very expensive toys and drinks. I find the ethnic diversity in Moscow to be very interesting, but also very challenging when it comes to girls. As you know, you would not deal with a Chechen girl like you would a Russian. The same goes for a Georgian or Armenian.
I find it surprising you say Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls, I find the exact opposite although most of the Russian girls I've dated the past were away from home studying abroad.. They were insanely spoilt, full of drama, immature pulling all kinds of stunts.BigJimbo said:Moscow Lair? Never heard of it. I spend a huge amount of time in Moscow and never knew that this stuff was used there. Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls. Now, there are some spoiled ones in Moscow. I am talking about real life Ksenia Sobchak types who really do exist. However, they are still a rarity.
If you are Russian why not visit a more provincial town like Samara or Kazan? Kazan is a great town with so many gorgeous and nice girls. I love the beautiful Mosque that highlights that town. Absolutely stunning.
Moscow is a grand city, but I have always seen it as more of a business and media town. A place to make money and blow it on very expensive toys and drinks. I find the ethnic diversity in Moscow to be very interesting, but also very challenging when it comes to girls. As you know, you would not deal with a Chechen girl like you would a Russian. The same goes for a Georgian or Armenian.
They believe the man has to be strong and the one always to chase them no matter what and they should be able to have as many guy friends they want and they're the ones to choose which guy is most suitable for them.
Maybe it's to do with the fact they are abroad and see that things are different that they end up abusing this freedom but I have yet to meet one hot Russian girl who wasn't spoilt in some way or good mannered. They cancel on you last minute because they want to go dancing with their girls (even if they're interested) even if they fear they may lose you cos they believe that if the guy is genuinely interested he'll come back. The man is always expected to pay etc etc
To honest, I'm sick of them and their bad manners. I think it may be related to many of them not having fathers in their lives from a young age so develop even more spoilt women behaviour cos they only ever had women there for them in their lives.
Immigrants don't count. Russian girls live in Russia. The Russian speaking people I see in America are a joke. NOTHING like what you see in Russia. If you want Russian go to Russia. If you want Japanese you go to Japan. If you want Irish you to Ireland.pikachu69 said:I find it surprising you say Russian girls are not spoiled like Western girls, I find the exact opposite although most of the Russian girls I've dated the past were away from home studying abroad.. They were insanely spoilt, full of drama, immature pulling all kinds of stunts.
They believe the man has to be strong and the one always to chase them no matter what and they should be able to have as many guy friends they want and they're the ones to choose which guy is most suitable for them.
Maybe it's to do with the fact they are abroad and see that things are different that they end up abusing this freedom but I have yet to meet one hot Russian girl who wasn't spoilt in some way or good mannered. They cancel on you last minute because they want to go dancing with their girls (even if they're interested) even if they fear they may lose you cos they believe that if the guy is genuinely interested he'll come back. The man is always expected to pay etc etc
To honest, I'm sick of them and their bad manners. I think it may be related to many of them not having fathers in their lives from a young age so develop even more spoilt women behaviour cos they only ever had women there for them in their lives.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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RUssian people who go to US are either rich or have connections
which means they're spoiled heaps
if you met a rich western girl i think she'd most likely be spoiled
which means they're spoiled heaps
if you met a rich western girl i think she'd most likely be spoiled