"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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More Young Men Giving Up On Marriage Because Women Aren't Women Anymore

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Anytime you are getting mad at someone.. I know that guy is doing or saying something right.
Lol, I'm not mad at anyone. I'm just sick of being sought out when members privately want support, then continuing that support publicly on the boards, and then finding out that these same needy people attempt to sh1t talk covertly.

There is no anger in my posts, tho I can see how it appears that way. I'm speaking my truth, as I have always seen it I've held back out of respect and kindness. Respect is no longer existent, I now speak my truth.

In fact, your attempt to label me as angry is a pathetic attempt to push my buttons and get me upset. Sorry, no dice.

Angry does describe @bigneil on a daily basis tho. All the poster has to do is simply state an opinion that disagrees with him and he is in a defcon 5 angry tantrum.

What's interesting is that @bigneil sh1t talks people by typing their screen names but not actually tagging them so they most likely won't know he is bashing them. He's done it to you @Urbanyst , I've seen it, you haven't?

We all know that he is way of his rocker. His postings are nothing more than inflated grandiouse deliusions. Im not saying he didn't fvck these girls. I'm saying that everything else he claims to have "done" for these females, besides fvcking them, are dellusional fabrications in his own mind while the females plays his ass, hard.

Give her her first orgasm, lol. @bigneil no you didn't. She's a fabulous actress and knew that would keep you in her frame. Lol, you bought everything she sold and then she dropped your ass like a rock.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Brilliant!

@sazc and @BeExcellent both snapped today - on the very same day. Why today? It's my birthday. My most powerful day of the year. They are wilting from my power.

Both wished the worst for me, both tried to revise history and say a previous lover dumped me (the truth was, I dumped her the moment she started to pull away). Both tried to rub in the fact that I am no longer with a girl so young and hot that they had steam coming out their ears ever since I first mentioned her. Both took back anything nice they ever pretended to say (trust me, neither of them ever had anything nice to say - they went from skeptical to pleased to raging). Both revealed that they are not without guile. They cannot be trusted. They will tell you what they think you want to hear, all the while plotting and scheming against you, collecting details they can use against you. They do not belong here in male forum and are no longer welcome.

My only question is this: are they the same person?



Case in point, lol, now all of a sudden it's his birthday? Bvllchit! He's completely delusional . Hope you guys can see it.

He runs around these boards completely messing with everybody's heads.

He's an emotional mess. He treats this forum as his personal blog site. Posting inflated situations that make him look like he's controlling everything when it's really a load of crap.

He changes his story about everything, lying as we have so clearly seen, photoshopping text messages and ratings on girls pictures. Don't buy it.

Guys, I know he lies about stuff. I contacted photo feeder to have them remove my photo. The response I got was that it was never posted. He is taking these girls pictures mimicking photo feeders style manipulating the percentages and posting them here. He's just a bald-faced liar about everything.
 
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Always amusing when men will attempt to so viciously shame other men who refuse to tow the party line. Even on a site like this. @Trump posts could have easily been written by a post menopausal women. Calling a man "immature" because he prefers younger women. Really...?
I didn't call a man immature because he prefers younger woman.


"Hey, how did your date go with that 29 year old woman?"
"She has too many issues. I prefer younger woman."

"Hey, how did your date go with that 45 year old man?"
"He was a little immature, all he talked about was sports and cars."

You always have to look at BOTH sides of the issues. Just because a man prefers younger woman doesn't mean he is mature enough to handle older ones. He should say "younger are sexier, have better bodies, haven't slept around." not just he "prefers" them.
 

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What kind of maintenance are you referring to? My gf is very low maintenance. However, it's possible that the maintenance you're referring to is just stuff I do automatically. If you're referring to emotional fluctuation, I do that without even thinking about it. I'll piss her off after making some smart ass comment, and then I won't apologize for it. I know I've done it when she calls me a d1ck or an *******.

I've found that different women need different levels of emotional fluctuation. The ones that bring tons of drama into their lives need lots of fluctuation. Ones who just have friends because their lives are drama-filled but have little-to-no drama in their own lives don't need a lot of emotional fluctuation. In other words, some women absolutely love a ride on the rollercoaster, some just like watching it.
The primary daily maintenance rotates around the different operational paradigms of men and women. As stated above, women are process oriented. At the end of a day, women want to talk about their day. Women process their feelings and make decisions via their discussions. Talking is their way of coming to conclusions about what they should do. They are not looking for solutions, they just want to talk and solidify their decisions. All a man needs to do is listen and (pretend if need be) that he cares.

Unfortunatly men are different. When we talk we are usually actively looking for advice. We have a problem and we want a solution. When we impose our paradigms on women they hate it. They don't want a solution, just an empathetic ear (male brains are less designed for empathy). So all you have to do is listen, and shut up. When you do so you win love points. You don't need to do anything but listen and pretend you care.

My wife buys/cooks dinner every night. She talks about her day, I look her in the eye, eat my food and nod my head. I pick up one love point every day.

Another piece of the puzzle is emotional control/responding to **** tests.

I think the best way to go here is for me to send you some chapters. All your questions are addressed in detail.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I didn't call a man immature because he prefers younger woman.


"Hey, how did your date go with that 29 year old woman?"
"She has too many issues. I prefer younger woman."

"Hey, how did your date go with that 45 year old man?"
"He was a little immature, all he talked about was sports and cars."

You always have to look at BOTH sides of the issues. Just because a man prefers younger woman doesn't mean he is mature enough to handle older ones. He should say "younger are sexier, have better bodies, haven't slept around." not just he "prefers" them.
"Mature enough to handle older ones"

More shaming language. Simply proving my point. Sure you're not a woman?

You're digging your own grave here...
 

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"Mature enough to handle older ones"

More shaming language. Simply proving my point. Sure you're not a woman?

You're digging your own grave here...
Notice how you completely ignored the point about looking at both sides of the issue. More imposing language....
 

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I love when people claim they only said things cause they were "being nice"

This is why I take compliments with a grain of salt, I've heard people give compliments and say something completely opposite later on.
 

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"Mature enough to handle older ones"

More shaming language. Simply proving my point. Sure you're not a woman?

You're digging your own grave here...
Im kinda confused about trump, he often makes great posts but recently something beeps in my radar certain times I read him
 

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Lol, I'm not mad at anyone. I'm just sick of being sought out when members privately want support, then continuing that support publicly on the boards, and then finding out that these same needy people attempt to sh1t talk covertly.

There is no anger in my posts, tho I can see how it appears that way. I'm speaking my truth, as I have always seen it I've held back out of respect and kindness. Respect is no longer existent, I now speak my truth.

In fact, your attempt to label me as angry is a pathetic attempt to push my buttons and get me upset. Sorry, no dice.

Angry does describe @bigneil on a daily basis tho. All the poster has to do is simply state an opinion that disagrees with him and he is in a defcon 5 angry tantrum.

What's interesting is that @bigneil sh1t talks people by typing their screen names but not actually tagging them so they most likely won't know he is bashing them. He's done it to you @Urbanyst , I've seen it, you haven't?

We all know that he is way of his rocker. His postings are nothing more than inflated grandiouse deliusions. Im not saying he didn't fvck these girls. I'm saying that everything else he claims to have "done" for these females, besides fvcking them, are dellusional fabrications in his own mind while the females plays his ass, hard.

Give her her first orgasm, lol. @bigneil no you didn't. She's a fabulous actress and knew that would keep you in her frame. Lol, you bought everything she sold and then she dropped your ass like a rock.
If @bigneil can manipulate you so easily (an experienced and seasoned woman who reads all of men's tricks on So Suave), I'm even more convinced he is a mack with the ripe young ladies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If @bigneil can manipulate you so easily (an experienced and seasoned woman who reads all of men's tricks on So Suave), I'm even more convinced he is a mack with the ripe young ladies.
Lol, keep tryin!
 
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