“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ryoshi

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Ok, these girls walk by my table tonight and I have my eye on one who had eye contact with me before. As they walk by, I ask the friend, "hey, I'd like to meet your friend" and they both smile at me and the one I have my eye on tells me her name. We talk a bit about her going to school because I overheard her and her friend talking about school. She held eye contact and her pupils were dilated. I can tell they want to leave (because they were actually trying to leave when I stopped them) so I say, "let me get your number so we can hang out some time."

She looks at her friend and smiles and then looks back at me and says, "well, I have a boyfriend, do you still want my number?" So I say yes and take it down. I then say goodbye and nice meeting you and whatnot.


Here's my questions. Do you think she's interested in me? Do you think she's tired of her boyfriend?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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you should have said, "only if you want to upgrade him." who in the hell knows what she was thinking. be glad you got the number and see if you can't make something of it.
 

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- I've a byfriend, do you still want it?
- this tall (showing hand at 6'4"), well built?
- no.
- so I'll take your number.
 

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Originally posted by carbani
- I've a byfriend, do you still want it?
- this tall (showing hand at 6'4"), well built?
- no.
- so I'll take your number.
Don't understand what you mean by the 2nd and 3rd. Are you asking if I'm well built or the boyfriend?
 
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Here's my questions. Do you think she's interested in me? Do you think she's tired of her boyfriend?"


Isn't it obvious. Even good girls will shop around when things aren't going to good with their dude. And with girlfriends egging them on...there you go.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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My interpretation of carbani's post:

Her: I've got a boyfriend, do you still want it?

You: Is he big, combat-trained, or fond of guns?

Her: No...

You: Then I still want it.


Anyways, it certainly seems like she's interested in you. Expect the first few hanging-out sessions to be either hush-hush or with other ppl around, while she decides whether or not to upgrade to you. If she does end up with you, check w/ her friends to see whether she dumped her bf first or is still playing him,
 
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