TheException
Master Don Juan
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Rule: Never bring up being exclusive.
No doubt in your journey to becoming a better man, these angelic words have fallen upon your ears. It is a rule that should be strictly followed and never deviated from. The basis for the rule is founded in both psychology and social awareness. However, i ask you to use your brain and ask yourself if following the rule is all that is necessary to master it?
There was a man who after reading and becoming unplugged from society, was enjoying his success. He followed the "golden rules" and his behaviors and body language was no doubt alpha. He came at a point in his life where he realized he began to fancy one woman he was seeing above the others. He still was alpha around her, flirted with other women when out with her, was dominant and always lead the interaction. When asking this woman to hang out he would always lead..."Were going to the Bruins game this week. Thursday." She would reciprocate. But as his feelings developed and he grew more fond, the woman became more cold to his advances and was no longer as enthusiastic as she once was. She was still attracted...for this was not the problem. The man began to panic and found himself becoming more needy...texting her often, making plans often, etc. The problem was not his behaviors for they were "alpha" as compared to beta/chump. He then slid into a negative loop, and was becoming beta in the very sense...would he be able to "fix" the problem before it was too late, or would the woman eventually walk out?
The man's epiphany came to him the day after an emotional breakdown. And when i say breakdown, i mean FULL ON BREAKDOWN. Built up with frustration, and fearing that which was never the problem, he broke down. Cried...screamed...stared at himself in the mirror and asked God why? "Whenever i make progress and find a woman i like, something always goes wrong...always". A wise man once said that An increase in ones game is about to occur after a TRUE breakdown...a true failure...if only the man gets out of his own way. Like a dragon rising from the ashes, great trials of tribulation always come from a "low". The next day, the man had his epiphany...
He realized the golden rule was true...but there is more to the rule than simply following it on an action level. Its more than simply never bringing up going exclusive(action), there is a mentality to be had. You view of life and woman MUST BE of one that would never inquire into such a thing. A relationship? That is not our concern as a man. Following the rule is not enough. We must shift our mentality and way we view the scenario. WE ARE THE PRIZE. IT IS OUR JOB TO SCREEN. No ONE woman is ever good enough for us. There is only women that match our life views and are a positive influence in our lives and goals. The man realized his error....ALTHOUGH HE FOLLOWED THE GOLDEN RULE, HIS MENTALITY HAD NOT. HE WAS FOSTERING AND BUILDING A SITUATION THAT WOULD LET THE WOMAN BRING UP BEING EXCLUSIVE. He wanted a relationship very badly and knew he could not bring it up. So instead he attempted to win the heart of the girl and subdue her so that she would love him and bring up being exclusive...he was chasing her.
I am so stupid he thought. I am rare not her. If she does not want to be exclusive that is her business for i should not care...true indifference. I am already having sex with her....the game is over. She knows i am alpha for she has given herself to me. I am TO JUST ENJOY HER COMPANY while i conquer life...in whatever faculty that may be. If and when she brings up being exclusive...this is when i may think of a relationship. I shall not even think about it until this point.
Often times, when we men grow fond of things, we want to possess it, own it. Women love things they chase, and if your mentality is to possess and get her into a relationship before she comes to the conclusion that she wants you exclusive...you be doomed. It is never too late to correct a mentality with a plate. Simply understand on a higher level this post and let it flow through you. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. By wishing her exclusive with you, you make her the prize...even if your actions do not say so. The woman will know, it will ooze from every pore on your body. A false frame, a lack of mentality...will only lead to a collapsed stack of cards eventually. Learn the lesson of the man and avoid such a fate. Dont lose a good plate, because you were overeager. Patience. She will realize it, and will forever thank you for it.
No doubt in your journey to becoming a better man, these angelic words have fallen upon your ears. It is a rule that should be strictly followed and never deviated from. The basis for the rule is founded in both psychology and social awareness. However, i ask you to use your brain and ask yourself if following the rule is all that is necessary to master it?
There was a man who after reading and becoming unplugged from society, was enjoying his success. He followed the "golden rules" and his behaviors and body language was no doubt alpha. He came at a point in his life where he realized he began to fancy one woman he was seeing above the others. He still was alpha around her, flirted with other women when out with her, was dominant and always lead the interaction. When asking this woman to hang out he would always lead..."Were going to the Bruins game this week. Thursday." She would reciprocate. But as his feelings developed and he grew more fond, the woman became more cold to his advances and was no longer as enthusiastic as she once was. She was still attracted...for this was not the problem. The man began to panic and found himself becoming more needy...texting her often, making plans often, etc. The problem was not his behaviors for they were "alpha" as compared to beta/chump. He then slid into a negative loop, and was becoming beta in the very sense...would he be able to "fix" the problem before it was too late, or would the woman eventually walk out?
The man's epiphany came to him the day after an emotional breakdown. And when i say breakdown, i mean FULL ON BREAKDOWN. Built up with frustration, and fearing that which was never the problem, he broke down. Cried...screamed...stared at himself in the mirror and asked God why? "Whenever i make progress and find a woman i like, something always goes wrong...always". A wise man once said that An increase in ones game is about to occur after a TRUE breakdown...a true failure...if only the man gets out of his own way. Like a dragon rising from the ashes, great trials of tribulation always come from a "low". The next day, the man had his epiphany...
He realized the golden rule was true...but there is more to the rule than simply following it on an action level. Its more than simply never bringing up going exclusive(action), there is a mentality to be had. You view of life and woman MUST BE of one that would never inquire into such a thing. A relationship? That is not our concern as a man. Following the rule is not enough. We must shift our mentality and way we view the scenario. WE ARE THE PRIZE. IT IS OUR JOB TO SCREEN. No ONE woman is ever good enough for us. There is only women that match our life views and are a positive influence in our lives and goals. The man realized his error....ALTHOUGH HE FOLLOWED THE GOLDEN RULE, HIS MENTALITY HAD NOT. HE WAS FOSTERING AND BUILDING A SITUATION THAT WOULD LET THE WOMAN BRING UP BEING EXCLUSIVE. He wanted a relationship very badly and knew he could not bring it up. So instead he attempted to win the heart of the girl and subdue her so that she would love him and bring up being exclusive...he was chasing her.
I am so stupid he thought. I am rare not her. If she does not want to be exclusive that is her business for i should not care...true indifference. I am already having sex with her....the game is over. She knows i am alpha for she has given herself to me. I am TO JUST ENJOY HER COMPANY while i conquer life...in whatever faculty that may be. If and when she brings up being exclusive...this is when i may think of a relationship. I shall not even think about it until this point.
Often times, when we men grow fond of things, we want to possess it, own it. Women love things they chase, and if your mentality is to possess and get her into a relationship before she comes to the conclusion that she wants you exclusive...you be doomed. It is never too late to correct a mentality with a plate. Simply understand on a higher level this post and let it flow through you. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. By wishing her exclusive with you, you make her the prize...even if your actions do not say so. The woman will know, it will ooze from every pore on your body. A false frame, a lack of mentality...will only lead to a collapsed stack of cards eventually. Learn the lesson of the man and avoid such a fate. Dont lose a good plate, because you were overeager. Patience. She will realize it, and will forever thank you for it.
