"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

More than one girl

lloyd_bank$

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2004
Messages
35
Reaction score
0
Location
UK
Hi, I don't post often on here, I can usually handle my own problems. I have improved greatly since 1-2 years back, when I was totally AFC. I would just like some advice on how to handle my current situatuion!

There's this girl "A" who iv been on a few dates with, she's really into me, i think she's ok but nothin special. We speak quite a lot and have gotten to kno each other quite well. Recently, we have both been on holiday, seperately, with our friends. She told me she pulled a few guys, I told her about a few girls I pulled. None of us had sex (we havnt had sex with each other yet also). Whilst on hliday, we exchanged a few txts, she told me that she was missing me.

She did tell me that she pulled a guy on holiday she would have probably seen again, but then found out he was younger than her. This doesn't really bother me. I told her that I went out the other nite, just before she got back from holiday. Asking if I pulled that nite, I said "yes". She asked if I got her number. I told her that I had, and she's been txtin me loads, but I'm not that bothered. Now, girl "A" seemed to get upset at this. I asked her if she was still wantin to do somethin with me 2moro - to which she replied "you're probably seein her"!

This girl knows that I don't really want a girlfriend right now, and we have only been out a few times. I enjoy hanging out with her. We havn't even done anything sexually yet, and she got quite pissed off and jealous of me with other girls, despite tellin me of other guys she pulled.

Anyone have any advice on how to handle this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

flexion_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2003
Messages
1,617
Reaction score
10
Age
56
WTF does "pull" mean?

I'm not sure why you are having discussions about what girls you are "pulling". Nothing good can come from you two having discussions about other people. Don't kiss and tell.

Next time this discussion comes up ..."I don't kiss and tell". This will make you more attractive to her as well because now you are a mystery. And why would you want to know what guys this girl is with - it only makes you look insecure.
 

MercutioTHEGREAT

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 24, 2005
Messages
128
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
Between your girl
your kidding me right? PULLED means the people you have picked up or hooked up with:crackup: Dayum we say that in the midwest you guys need to be updated on your slang knowledge
 
Top