She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats with this sudden need for validation on a forum ?Gaucho said:
We bow to your superior intellect.Gaucho said:It was more of a grin to loud mouthed kids.
I don't care for the validation. My fund is showing that right now. Short Asian equities, short AUD/USD, short EUR/NZD, short AUD/CAD, short EUR/USD, long gold/financials. That is what you call trading. Not this punting junk on specs that so many kids get excited about with $$$ signs in their eyes.
You are an Internet Stud.cordoncordon said:We bow to your superior intellect.
BTW I'll match my portfolio % performance, AND my bank account, against yours any day of the week, and twice on Sunday.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This wasnt a panic. This was an orchestrated take down by someone/something with power who caused a quick crash, in cahoots imo with probably someone like Goldman to then take out as many stop loss orders as possible-in other words the market makers get cheap shares, then take the price right back up.Mr.Positive said:I've never seen anything like this....dow crashes almost 1000, then bounces back for 600.
Hopefully, the bounce isn't a dead cat bounce, precluding another crash.
Crazy times. This is what happens when people panic, it hurts everyone.
But we’re still left with a cultural problem. Some people still think that money that comes from money is free. Contrast the money-world with the real world, where actual work still matters. Feeding a cow for 20 months and then slaughtering it and selling the meat is obviously hard work, not easy money: It takes labor and money for the feed, and for the vet’s bills, and for keeping the fences up, and then one must also deal with all that excrement. Running a pizzeria costs money and takes work, as does running a law firm or a factory. But when we put money into a broker’s hands or have somebody do it for us in a pension fund, then new money that is begat by money just sort of happens. The magical process of money spawned by money has changed everything in America: The new rule of American life is that clever people don’t actually work, they just make money with money. The measure of one’s cleverness is one’s portfolio’s performance. The farther somebody is from having to shovel **** on a farm, twirl pizzas, write wills, or manage a shop floor, the smarter one is, the wiser, the more blessed
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well the price of gold shot up today substantially, investors are fleeing towards gold for sure.Mr.Positive said:Thanks Cordon, sure makes sense. Of course, the media is saying it was some glitch. A trader perhaps, pushed the wrong button....button B for Billions, instead of M for millions, and then went outside for a smoke break.![]()
Big banks stealling from the people again. I wonder how much longer this will go on before people take to the streets, like in Greece.
I am also curious, if this will cause investors to flee the market into bonds, creating a bond bubble.
You believe what you want, and I'll believe what I want. If you think some junior trader accidently entered a sell for $15 Billion instead of $15million ( I dont even see how this is possible) then you also probably believe the US Federal Reserve are our friends. Keep drinking the Kool aid.Gaucho said:You are a complete idiot Condon. This was an error, obviously. Have you never seen an order flow when this kind of thing happens? Most of the time, the market moves through the low of the tail anyways!
I told you the market was coming off a week before this 'error' when the market was much higher. That's called trading, you would have been on the right side of this 'error' if you knew how to trade anyways!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Noticed that about gold, and actually sold some yesterday. Hopefully, made the right move and sold at the top.Axcell said:Well the price of gold shot up today substantially, investors are fleeing towards gold for sure.
Market did horrible again today. But there were some decent buys. As for the scandal, anything at 60% loss in that period or over was revoked i.e. the stocks that went to a penny. Although people who got in on Apple at $216 I believe were lucky...
Gaucho needs to drink some more koolaid, here is the most logical explanation as to what happened Thursday, as I stated the other day. To honestly think the entire thing was caused by some guy typing in a B instead of an M (which isnt even how its traded) is beyond ludicrous. But Gaucho actually believes it? Tells you ALL you need to know about his mental capabilities.Mr.Positive said:Noticed that about gold, and actually sold some yesterday. Hopefully, made the right move and sold at the top.
I wonder if this whole drop will just end up being a small blip in the radar, and come Monday, everything will stabilize and be back to normal.
I agree with Cordon, there's no way an 'error' could cause the biggest drop in the Dow in over 20 years. I believe the market is fragile, but not that fragile... There was a large transfer of wealth going on, by intention.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.