"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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REd-xL

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On the first day of class, come 5-10 minutes late to class, and come in through the doors at the bottom of the lecture hall (hopefully, you'll manage to interrupt the professor). This is all about presence. Make sure you're wearing your best clothes. Look around at the seats, then nonchalantly make your way up the aisle and park yourself somewhere in the middle.

Study groups. Perfect flirting opportunities.

When the professor prompts the class for answers to questions or comments, reserve a couple opportunities to make a quick joke. Often, if you make yourself appear boisterous, your professor will begin to address you by name. Now everyone knows who you are. All too often, people come up to me at random parties and talk about how funny I am. When meeting girls in class, it starts out with, "Hey, I'm--" "Jerome. I know. Everybody knows. *smile*"

Sit with your friends next to a cute girl, and talk to your pals like you're a gregarious, friendly person. This sets yourself up to be non-threatening when you approach her.

Eh, can't think of more off the top of my head.

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How do you expect to catch some fish if you don't toss out your lure? -Jerome
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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If you chat up a cute girl the first day of class the chances are she'll want to sit with you for the rest of the semester.

Also, study the material before it is lectured. This way you look smarter because you don't have to write every little detail down. You can also help the cute girl sitting beside you if she doesn't understand the material.
 

shandoli

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i love the coming late bit n it is right. I have tried it n it works. U might get told off but handle it with confidence.
U can even use it later to make people laugh by imitating ur professor
hehe

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mistyc

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nice... I never take notes, and I often come late to class.

hee hee hee hee
So I just need to work on the boisterousness and the sitting near HBs (if there are any in my classes)
 

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It does give credit with girls if you are both popular and a good student (also gives you more HB's that want to study with you, hehe). So I wouldn't say taking notes is bad...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Coming in late to class can be good if you are allowed to do it. That is, if the professor does not have a mandatory absence policy, then you are OK to do as you please. I have seen people fail because they showed up tardy too many times or missed class more than what was allowed.

The key is to come in the class in your own reality, nonchalantly, and a walk of confidence. You cannot walk in scurrying to find a seat. You can scan the room slowly, and you must have your head up at all times. Make EC with all of the better-looking ones that are checking you out. Smile if you want to, or just give them EC until they break or you find your seat.

I have been called out a few times by a female professor after receiving smiles or comments from girls who dig this behavior. You must not act afraid of the professor when he/she calls you out or asks personal questions at an inappropriate time. You WILL get recognized by your classmates. It's a form of instant social proof I suppose.

Again, you must be internally centered. You are not living in their reality, but only yours.
 

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yeh - I do that all the time now ... except when I'm in a hard class where I need to concentrate. There's a curse to it though. Everybody knows my name N some ppl hate.
:rolleyes:

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