"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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More sex = Pay my toll

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If you dudes meet a chick and wind up banging her and think you might want to see her again for another fvck session, a little better way rather than just relying on calling or texting and her flaking might be making a game out of taking some property of theirs. Like "pay the toll" where they have to come back when they're ready and "pay the toll" if they want to see it again.

(Panties, gum, or some object.) You can possibly play that angle in texts or future calls holding it 'hostage' for a 'ransom' that they have to pay or meet up for drinks to 'negotiate' its return. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If the girl doesn't want to see you after the first time she has sex then doing this won't make her want to see you anymore.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
If the girl doesn't want to see you after the first time she has sex then doing this won't make her want to see you anymore.

It can't hurt to teasingly gauge her interest right off the bat afterwards by trying to play that game..
 
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