Ok so background on this story - I dated this girl for about 3 months or so before summer started. I see her at a party last night. I haven't talked to her in a few weeks because she was flaky and I nexted her.
I get to the party and try to mingle with other girls. I get a few IOI's and try to work on whats available but no girls really seem that interested. Later in the night i see the ex-gf hook up with 2 other guys in front of me. I act like i don't care, mainly because at this point i realize that jealousy just makes you look like a *****.
Later on in the night me and 4 people are outside everyones wasted. i see her blantantly flirt with another guy in front of me. She turns toward me and says "oh sky77 wouldn't want to see this he might get uncomfortable cuz hes my ex bf".
I try to control the frame by basically telling her if she wants to hook up with him go ahead. I tell the guy to go for it. I don't stress about girls. whatever you want to do is fine.
5 min later she leaves and comes back and tells me that what i said was hurtful and she said that it implied that she was a wh0re. she looks dramatic and is lookin into my eyes when she says this.
I tell her im leaving, and she wants to walk me out. She hooks up with me before I leave.
OK so my question now is: should i completely next her, or just do no contact, and just keep hooking up with her at parties when shes down?
I have a feeling if i straight up call her and ask her out shes going to shoot me down, but she hooked up with me so idk how a DJ would handle this.
obviously i like her, shes an ex gf. but no oneitis.
I get to the party and try to mingle with other girls. I get a few IOI's and try to work on whats available but no girls really seem that interested. Later in the night i see the ex-gf hook up with 2 other guys in front of me. I act like i don't care, mainly because at this point i realize that jealousy just makes you look like a *****.
Later on in the night me and 4 people are outside everyones wasted. i see her blantantly flirt with another guy in front of me. She turns toward me and says "oh sky77 wouldn't want to see this he might get uncomfortable cuz hes my ex bf".
I try to control the frame by basically telling her if she wants to hook up with him go ahead. I tell the guy to go for it. I don't stress about girls. whatever you want to do is fine.
5 min later she leaves and comes back and tells me that what i said was hurtful and she said that it implied that she was a wh0re. she looks dramatic and is lookin into my eyes when she says this.
I tell her im leaving, and she wants to walk me out. She hooks up with me before I leave.
OK so my question now is: should i completely next her, or just do no contact, and just keep hooking up with her at parties when shes down?
I have a feeling if i straight up call her and ask her out shes going to shoot me down, but she hooked up with me so idk how a DJ would handle this.
obviously i like her, shes an ex gf. but no oneitis.