"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Interesting post.

Sex is the easiest thing the in the world to get in 2013.. BUT.... Love? Not so much. Trust? Not so much. Loyalty? Not so much. Deep bonding? Not so much. Traditional family? Not so much.

Men no longer have to wait for marriage to get sex. Men no longer have to kiss the ass of a girl's father to date her. Men no longer have to be chivalrous. The price we pay is the quality of the women has gone down.

Its like fast food. Cheap and accessible.. but low quality and unhealthy over time. Modern women have become fast food.
Very true

Men should be in no hurry to get married....but in fact they are

men are desperate to marry...to find *the one*

I've seen it myself....visit any ivy league or top tiered graduate program...architecture, biology, medicine...90% of the people will be engaged...

now will these be positive happy marriages long term? I believe not...most of the men are AFCs white knights all the rest of it...but they have good income prospects will be good providers and want to subject themselves to the yoke of marriage

that is key

smart, high income men by in large want to subject themselves to the yoke of marriage...they believe it is a good thing :crackup:

they will realize their folly later of course

but it will cost them a great deal in terms of income and emotional turmoil
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We had an unsolved murder in this area about 20 years ago...solved during the divorce proceedings. She told AFTER she decided he was no longer needed....15 years after the murder
 
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