"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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More fvckin drama from chosen's life

Chosen1

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You know I'm starting to realize that women love to back stab each other. This chick who thought I was bad and abusing my ex wife wrote me a damn letter on myspace. Telling me about how bad my ex is. The funny thing is everybody is cool when they were friends but now since there not guess what they come to me. Here's another letter

"Hey wuzzle. i feel like i should be telling u this cuz its been heavy on my heart n i feel u have the right to kno. Toni has opened all ur mail and then threw it away. DO u kno thats a federal offense?? Your divorce papers she wasnt going to give to you cuz she didnt want u to get joint. But i told her to because she can get in real trouble and i told her thats not really cool to do to u. But u got papers a few months back bout goin to court for anthony tryin to see him and she opened it, thru it away cuz she wants u to have nothing to do w anthony. Y u think she got back w u? cuz she wanted the apartment n she had to give it a while to figure out how she was goin to afford everything on her own. WOW cmon wuzzle! duh! she lives so nasty, **** roaches everywhere. UR SON IS LIVING IN THOSE CONDITIONS! It stinks in her place like nasty...but i finally figured out she was the bad person always made it seem like it was you...and i was totally wrong. She is a drama queen and how she treats people is how she wants to be treated i guess. I was a good friend to her..took her and anthony everywhere and used my gas and time. She took me for granted. She hated living @ her mamas thats why she got back w u. Now shes got the place all to herself! she is a sneaky person w a heart of dirt! thats why she will never be nobody and jus live in drama and slum the rest of her life. Well thats all i have to say, i waisted alot of time w her when all she did was get a laugh out of it. I dont care I will let God judge her and shell see what im talkin bout when she gets no where in life and wants ppl to jus feel sorry for her 24 7. I am so hurt inside. Life goes on tho dont it? :)"

Then me being the bless S.O.B that I am, put all the pieces together and realize this girl was my ex's ride.Read a couple threads back about how I had sex with my ex. This women is going to try to use me for a ride. I need to start shying away from all this to much drama.



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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thundernuts

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Stay away man, i know the only reason your writing these is because you know what you need to do but you need it to be enforced. I don't know the full story behind all this but it sounds to me you need to just move on and don't look back except to be with your kid. I would investigate all the mail that she is throwing away but you got to put your foot down with both of these women.
 
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