"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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More fvckin drama from chosen's life

Chosen1

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You know I'm starting to realize that women love to back stab each other. This chick who thought I was bad and abusing my ex wife wrote me a damn letter on myspace. Telling me about how bad my ex is. The funny thing is everybody is cool when they were friends but now since there not guess what they come to me. Here's another letter

"Hey wuzzle. i feel like i should be telling u this cuz its been heavy on my heart n i feel u have the right to kno. Toni has opened all ur mail and then threw it away. DO u kno thats a federal offense?? Your divorce papers she wasnt going to give to you cuz she didnt want u to get joint. But i told her to because she can get in real trouble and i told her thats not really cool to do to u. But u got papers a few months back bout goin to court for anthony tryin to see him and she opened it, thru it away cuz she wants u to have nothing to do w anthony. Y u think she got back w u? cuz she wanted the apartment n she had to give it a while to figure out how she was goin to afford everything on her own. WOW cmon wuzzle! duh! she lives so nasty, **** roaches everywhere. UR SON IS LIVING IN THOSE CONDITIONS! It stinks in her place like nasty...but i finally figured out she was the bad person always made it seem like it was you...and i was totally wrong. She is a drama queen and how she treats people is how she wants to be treated i guess. I was a good friend to her..took her and anthony everywhere and used my gas and time. She took me for granted. She hated living @ her mamas thats why she got back w u. Now shes got the place all to herself! she is a sneaky person w a heart of dirt! thats why she will never be nobody and jus live in drama and slum the rest of her life. Well thats all i have to say, i waisted alot of time w her when all she did was get a laugh out of it. I dont care I will let God judge her and shell see what im talkin bout when she gets no where in life and wants ppl to jus feel sorry for her 24 7. I am so hurt inside. Life goes on tho dont it? :)"

Then me being the bless S.O.B that I am, put all the pieces together and realize this girl was my ex's ride.Read a couple threads back about how I had sex with my ex. This women is going to try to use me for a ride. I need to start shying away from all this to much drama.



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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thundernuts

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Stay away man, i know the only reason your writing these is because you know what you need to do but you need it to be enforced. I don't know the full story behind all this but it sounds to me you need to just move on and don't look back except to be with your kid. I would investigate all the mail that she is throwing away but you got to put your foot down with both of these women.
 
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