"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sAxyguy83

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How about a separate forum for college ppl, or forums specifically for guys that want sex and specifically for guys that want real relationships? Maybe a ladies' forum, even, so they can tell us what they really want?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hooold it... I think all those forums would be waste of time and effort. I think the college things can be posted in the general disucssion (I have personally always thought the High School Forum as the most useless forum here)

And why two seperate forums for guys who want LTR's and guys who want sex? You think you don't need sex in an LTR?

I think everyone knows what they want and can see what advice is good for their purpose and what's not.

And a ladies forum... huh? First of all: There are only few ladies here. Second of all: No MAN would visit it, because it would just be full of feminazi propaganda. Do we really want to know what they want from men? I think we know that better than they do!

There are already too many forums here. I never have the time to visit the High School Forum, and often I only visit the general discussion & anything else, maybe tips if I have time. It's because I have only few hours per week time to surf in the web. Creating even more forums would be just stupid.
 
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