"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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more convo = more chance for phone number?

KneghtRyder

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new strategy guys,

12 approaches and not much sucess.
I think I will change my strategy I will
try to talk more/have more convo try to
concentrate on a few girls high-chance candidates
but pursue it more..in order words focus on winning
just one in stead of trying to trying to spread my approaches
to a wider area with short chitchat convos

I guess this is a lesson for me that I need to put more
concentration into 1 girl at a time and pursue and win that number
before moving on....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TruthHurts

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see it depends what you looking.. a fck vs a relationship... relationship is build on understanding/compatability... vs a fck is based on physical/body language... for a fck just talk to as many as you can and dont talk more, but get number throw physical vibe... oppesite for relationship material.. (when i say relationship, I am talking about LTR, long term relationship) not just a few month fling..
 

KneghtRyder

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what do you mean by 'physical vibe', I guess you mean use your looks...

I don't think my looks are super strong..etc
 

WC2

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Don't make your approaches projects. Instead, make them hobbies. You should be doing this for enjoyment. If you're not, each girl will easily, and obviously already has seen it. Rethink why you are doing this.
 
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