"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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more convo = more chance for phone number?

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KneghtRyder

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new strategy guys,

12 approaches and not much sucess.
I think I will change my strategy I will
try to talk more/have more convo try to
concentrate on a few girls high-chance candidates
but pursue it more..in order words focus on winning
just one in stead of trying to trying to spread my approaches
to a wider area with short chitchat convos

I guess this is a lesson for me that I need to put more
concentration into 1 girl at a time and pursue and win that number
before moving on....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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see it depends what you looking.. a fck vs a relationship... relationship is build on understanding/compatability... vs a fck is based on physical/body language... for a fck just talk to as many as you can and dont talk more, but get number throw physical vibe... oppesite for relationship material.. (when i say relationship, I am talking about LTR, long term relationship) not just a few month fling..
 
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what do you mean by 'physical vibe', I guess you mean use your looks...

I don't think my looks are super strong..etc
 
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Don't make your approaches projects. Instead, make them hobbies. You should be doing this for enjoyment. If you're not, each girl will easily, and obviously already has seen it. Rethink why you are doing this.
 
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