"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tdotseoul

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I have just moved to a more conservative city and if you see my username and you'll understand where.

So, even though women here sleep as much as people in the west; however, when it comes to talking about it, it's a little different.

For example, I have to be very careful before I make any sexual flirtations. I once had a girl that I was having amazing conversations with turned into **** from one very simple, innocent, sexual flirtation text. (She told me not to talk to her again)

So, what are some tips on being flirty without being so sexual about it. I know you could tease but these women are really sensitive and teasing will get tiring really quickly.

Any ideas? Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The simplest explanation is that she doesnt find you attractive enough to be sexual with you, she just wanted to have you around and when you manifested your intention to move to the following step, she got annoyed and left.

Why looking for some hard complicate explanation when the easiest and more common one is the lack of interest from the girl we want to bang?

Do you think that if she founded you a sexy beast she would have been pissed off from your flirting? If Clooney was to flirt with her in an aggressive way she would have tell him to never call her again?

Don't beat yourelf about mistakes you could have done, as I said most of the time its a matter of interest level, if she likes you then you can do no wrong.
 

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I think your opinion is based on west-centric mindset. Not all cultures enjoys talking about sex or can accept sexual teasing.

For example, some women here never ever talk about sex with their friends in their whole lifetime. They do not understand sexual jokes, they can't find it funny or just find it straight up creepy.

I know a difference between a girl who told me not to talk to her because they were not interested and a girl who told me not to talk to her because she didn't like that type of text.

George Clooney example doesn't really count because he is a celebrity and they know that the chances of him being a perv or a creep is less likely than a guy they just met like a week ago.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
Let me put it simple, it depends on the uprbringing. Some girls are simply looking at you as a pathetic being if you aren't doing the 'old way' of meeting.

Being sexually distant, calling her on date, movies, and romantic ****. I know one girl who doesn't have boyfriend because all the guys go with the sexually teasing route, and she's into romantic ****.

this is very true

remember global westernized culture is fem centric....you see this even in conservative countries like india, Korea.....

simply put whatever stupid thought a woman has SHE EXPECTS THE MEN AROUND HER TO BLINDLY COMPLY....and pornography has men so wired that they will likely jump through a thousand burning hoops to get some poon tang

Men have to become arbiters of their own destiny instead of being slaves to puzzy

good luck though :crackup:

most men are just boys... tongue wagging faggots looking for even a tiny morsel of female approval to get through their pathetic lonely lives.
 
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