"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MOre attractive you are..less gilrs approach?

tristan22

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How do you know when a girl is checking you out? I've been coming to this site a long time, and i've been told time and time again, to not pay attention to signals.

I never can tell if a girl is in to me. I approach girls and briefly chat, but most bore the heck out of me. Perhaps my luck might change if i learned how to distinguish if a girl is checking me out or not.

Some tips or pointers would be greatly appreciated!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pharoh

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Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
Ive posted my pictures plenty of times. Ive found that different girls will think completely different of me. Some will go for my look, and others will not like it. *Shrug*



Hey man, you got some powerful eyes. Are they naturally that color? The reason I'm telling you this is because I have big eyes and also long eyelashes (which I think is gay but I don't want to trim them. Should I?)

This might sound wierd, but do you have problems maintaining eye contact with people? Whenever I look at people like guys for instance, they either smile cause they acknowledge me in a respectful way or start to challenge me. Usually when I go around campus and enter a building, I just look down because whenever I look around and meet people's eyes, they make me feel like I'm being arrogant. Does this make any sense?
 

FreeStyleZ

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Color contacts. Yeah I meet peoples eyes often I suppose. I never really think about it, I just do it.
 
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