More attractive to younger women in your 30's?

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I am thirty five.......tall...pretty good shape and still have all my hair...lol.
I have noticed I now seem to get more looks from girls 18 to 24 alot more now then I did while I was in my twenties. Any other guys in their 30's experiencing this?
 

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yellowstoneman2012 said:
I am thirty five.......tall...pretty good shape and still have all my hair...lol.
I have noticed I now seem to get more looks from girls 18 to 24 alot more now then I did while I was in my twenties. Any other guys in their 30's experiencing this?
No but I would like to be. That is the age group I am most attracted too.
 

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Same here. I think it's probably because I used to be way too skinny. I'm such a late bloomer.

In my teenage years I was busy learning, studying and trying to understand the world. I was a young guy interested in mathematics, philosophy and old music(classical, 70's soul and jazz).

In my twenties reality hit me hard and taught me self-discipline and being selfreliant. Looking back I realise how beneficial it is to have good, REAL role models in your life.

Life's looking a lot better now, but there's still a lot left to be done. I'm lucky to look at least five years younger than I actually am!
 

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ft d i think i am more attractive at almost 29 than i was at 19. physically i have grown into my body. i do not look old but i no longer look like a child if that makes sense. i've been able to keep my boyish charm while at the same time looking ilke i have grown up. i've i was always "cute" i had always looked very young for my age. working out definatly helps but even still. when we were in england a few weeks ago.. i use a straight razor and becuase of customs and **** i just did not bother to try to bring it with me and my wife's dad does not use a straight so i just let my facial hair grow out for the first time since forever i am always clean shaven. on the plane back my wife kept looking at me and she siad please do not shave that is so fvcking sexy lol. **** i couldn't even grow facial hair at 19 at least tot he extent i have it now
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but more than that being older brings an auora around yout hat you just do not have in your youth, assuming you lived life correctly. i'm not rushed, im' not in a hurry to get anything, i've lived life enough to know what i want and to not be intimanted by cute girls...

how can i explain it.. it's like, it's like how i can be attracted to my wife who will be 34 in septmeber yet at the same time be attracted to say, a 23 year 5'10 leggy girl in the sports bar. my wife can turn me on in ways that the 23 year old just can't, she's very sexy yet very classy and mature.. at the same time, the 23 year old can turn me on in ways my wife can't.. mye wife works out every day just about but i mean.. you know it's not even gravity becuase my wife works out everyday.. there is something sexy /erotic about youth and innocence.. it's kinda like lexi belle the porn star, she is very very cute but that's not why she is so popular.. it's her act/demanor that drives men wild..


so what i am getting at is that women are attracted to older man it's just a differnet type of attraction. neither is better or worse than the other.

the mistake most 30 year old men make is trying to downplay the age differemce when that's actually your greatest asset. most men assume that because they are not attracted to 30 year old women like they are 20 year old women, that women think the same. i get hit on much more now than i did evenw hen i was 22-23 by girls that age. partly beucase i have more game but still lol.
 

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I am not sure if I get more attention. I do know I am better equipped to deal with the attention.

I also believe that they key is fitness. If you stay fit then age is just a number. Of course, this can come with sacrifice of 'not living your 20s up'. So all a choice.
 

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ft d i think i am more attractive at almost 29 than i was at 19. physically i have grown into my body. i do not look old but i no longer look like a child if that makes sense
I think the thing is, when you're in your 30s, you look like a man. While a lot of guys look more like boys well into their 20s. Not all, but a lot. This is part of the "men age like wine, women age like milk" idea. In many ways, a guy comes into his own in his 30s.

but more than that being older brings an auora around yout hat you just do not have in your youth, assuming you lived life correctly
Right, this goes back to the prior point. Really, a lot of guys really are boys in their early to mid 20s. If they go to college, they may not have even had the experience of supporting themselves fully. Add in the extra experience, and it really does give you a different aura.

the mistake most 30 year old men make is trying to downplay the age differemce when that's actually your greatest asset.
I thought that my age was an asset for me well into my 40s. Unfortunately, now that I'm in my 50s, that claim has been pretty much burned up. But even in my 40s I thought my age was an asset, and was a source of confidence for me. I was fortunate enough to have seen some girls crush on older guys when I was younger, and I always remembered it.
 

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Hell to the yes. But only a certain type. I attract young, shallow, fake retards like you wouldn't believe. It's starting to get on my nerves, and has been happening for as long as I can remember. I always attracted the younger, "popular" crowds - be it guys or girls - even though I don't even like those people, and have nothing in common with them outside of appearance. People assume too much based on that alone.

So, I think it has to do with perception, which might be why this is happening. How you look, act, dress, who you associate with, etc, could be playing a vital role. I give off player vibes - as people suggest constantly - and retards seem to like that. Also, still looking and dressing young, having a bad boy vibe (not intentionally; just the way I am), a nice car, jewelry, good clothes, and things like that. They definitely go for the shallow, materialistic, bad, pretty boy look. But that's all it is. Once they find out I'm a decent fellow, and I find out they're completely retarded - we both lose interest. There is no compatibility whatsoever; completely different mindsets, lifestyles, things we're looking for, etc.

Women my age don't have much interest because of the way I look and present myself. Not taken seriously, I guess. Just someone to mess around with, they assume. A lot of guys would probably like to be in this position, but its not that great. Lots of shallow, stupid people want to hang around you, and they pick up on your vibes quickly. Like they say, you attract what you are. So, a fake barbie skank is gonna seek out what I present on the outside. It's not as glorious as you think. These people are just... Trash. Losers, players, *****es, troublesome, dysfunctional, etc. They're usually "hot", but that means nothing to me anymore. Can't stand most "hot" people - male or female. I don't attract any quality people, even though I want to. :mad:

But, you gotta weed 'em out like all the rest. Once we get to know each other (after initial judgements pass), I end up associating with intelligent, semi-geeky, decent, plain, older, more mature types the most. That's who I click with, and where we are most compatible with each other. People just assume you might be fake, shallow, or even trouble based on your appearance alone, and make decisions from there - on whether to associate with you or not. Only a certain group that feels connected with you is gonna approach. Just the way it is. In my case, its fake *****es and barbie skanks. Most of which are young (18-25).

But, people tell me I look 25, which I got from mom. She looks young and pretty, and always did. So, that could play a role, as well.

Edit: There's also the possibility, if none of this applies to you, that they're attracted to older men. But, watch out. They might have daddy issues (looking for a father-figure, since they don't know theirs / were abandoned young), assume you have more money, etc. Always play it safe.
 
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timmylivingalie said:
No but I would like to be. That is the age group I am most attracted too.
LOL.
 

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Once I turned 30 it was like the floodgates opened: every girl since then, including my current girlfriend, has been in the 22-25 range.
 

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I attract attention from kids->old people. Its because of my style, really loud colors... you could say flamboyant.

Does that count. lol
 

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As you can see on the left hand side.... im knocking on 30's door but.. in terms of being more attractive.. This is the most attractive i have ever been in my life to the point that im turning heads and getting called a model frequently. Ive always been attractive to females however now that im older its at a all time high.
 

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Also by the way to all you who are still in your low to mid 20's, STAY IN SHAPE, You will be rewarded later in life not just with women but health wise overall.
 
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