Moral Dilemna, Got Re-Acquianted & Have Feelings for my Ex-GF dont kno how to act on

[Dante420]

So after returning from a trip, I hung out with my ex-short term relationship gf (I rarely make commitments but I didn't end up having sex with this girl because I knew I was ending things and she was younger then me so I didn't want her to feel played) for the first time in awhile (I initiated no contact after our break up to keep things clean)and I have feelings for her. She has a lot of respect for me and she is very witty and funny. Her personality is great and if you remember she's the girl who I told you about from the other thread who was speaking highly of me while my long-term ex-girlfriend was speaking negatively of me. Anyways since I seen her I have feelings for her and I realized why I originally made a commitment to her and she has a really high level of respect for me and she treats me real well, she thinks I accomplish my goals and just recently said to me on our first time hanging out that I'm such an amazing person.

Anyway we hung out Monday and went down by the beach, real late at night, we were just chilling, talking. I ended up holding her under the stars by the ocean we just talked. She started off a bit cold, distant and personality struck but By the end I kissed her a few times and let her give me a kiss goodbye. She mentioned "booking herself into a weekend night with me"

We hung out again on Wednesday for a bit, I picked her up from school and we went down to another part of the beach and chilled out walked on the rocks out to this area http://www.freefoto.com/images/1218...Hampton+Beach+State+Park,++New+Hampshire,+USA.

took sum pics of each other she and I picked up sum shoes on the way to dropping her off, we kissed a couples times touched each other. She called me again to ask me to check out the high school basketball game with her, thing is it's a possibility a girl like her could just be seeing the car, (she's not driving age yet, obviously close tho). I was busy but she may still remember those weekend plans she brought up.


So I got these feelings for her and I don't know how to act on them.......should I put her back up to gf-potential candidate in my life or should I stop kissing her and keep it more friendly?

 

[Kailex]

First off... don't worry if no one has replied to this thread... I'm pretty sure mostly everyone that has read this is asking themselves if this was the same beach that the gym-doctor took you to for a nice beer and a massage offer...

But, I'll help you out here, I hope.

First of all, what do YOU want to do with this girl?
Before you figure out WHAT do do, you need to figure out what you WANT.

If you don't know... I don't know how to help you, let alone, will you be able to know what do to next.

Right now, she's just a plate.

Why not just go with the flow and see what happens, instead of wondering what your next move should be. If she remembers the plans, then go with it... if she doesn't and you'd still like to go out with her, just call her and ask her out.

I know it might seem a bit complicated, but it's really not that complicated unless you want it to be or make it out to be that way. It seems she is interested and you most definitely are.

So again... what do YOU WANT?

 

[Dante420]

First off... don't worry if no one has replied to this thread... I'm pretty sure mostly everyone that has read this is asking themselves if this was the same beach that the gym-doctor took you to for a nice beer and a massage offer...

But, I'll help you out here, I hope.

First of all, what do YOU want to do with this girl?
Before you figure out WHAT do do, you need to figure out what you WANT.

If you don't know... I don't know how to help you, let alone, will you be able to know what do to next.

Right now, she's just a plate.

Why not just go with the flow and see what happens, instead of wondering what your next move should be. If she remembers the plans, then go with it... if she doesn't and you'd still like to go out with her, just call her and ask her out.

I know it might seem a bit complicated, but it's really not that complicated unless you want it to be or make it out to be that way. It seems she is interested and you most definitely are.

So again... what do YOU WANT?

I think she's the best around and I know she'd have respect for my freedom so 60% of me wants to see things progress as I just "go with the flow and see what happens", so I guess I just gotta go with the flow and see how things go and if it's meant to happen again it will.