Moral Dilemma

[Reyaj]

It's like this....



There are a few girls that I have been chasing in the past, but never really was able to get anywhere with (they had bf's,low interest level etc..)

Well now that I am more of a DJ I have noticed that there is some interest level in me from these girls. I have an opportunity to use my skills and go for the pus$&#

But of course I am having second thoughts. See I know that I am not interested in much more than sex with these girls, and after/if I get some I am sure I will feel like my mission is accomplished.

These girls aren't bad people and I would be a real ass$#( to just get some and not follow through.


However I have always wanted to mess with these girls physically and now I have an opportunity to at least give it a decent shot. Whenever I decide its wrong, it bothers me that I am blowing an opportunity. And when I decide to do it I feel guilty as if I am leading them on.



What should I do?

 

[MacDiddy]

I'd rather encourage you to not do it and be the lazy loser that allows people like me to get in and take your chicks away... then allow them to come back to you when I'm done and use you as their emotional tampon as they reminise about the great time they had with me and how they'll do it all over again... kinda drive you further into their LBJF zone...

So.... what SHOULD you do????

 

[Wyldfire]

Well...if they are single and interested and you are up front and honest that you aren't looking for a relationship and anything that went on would be a casual thing then if anything happened you wouldn't have a reason to feel guilty. If your conscience bothers you like this (which I happen to find to be a VERY admirable trait) then just be honest about your intentions and take it from there.

 

[Reyaj]

The thing is.... I know how to make these girls feel good.

I listen to them, I use sincere compliments etc...


Im sure they will see LTR and if I get them to put out, that will be in their head.


I would be leading them on possibly....

But on the other hand, I wanted to band these broads for so long.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Bro...bang em.

You know, as long as you're honest and up front with them about not wanting a relationship...then they have to respect you for that. If it becomes some kind of game for the girl to try to change you after you slept with her and told her you don't want a relationship...then thats HER problem not yours.

Yeah...its easier said than done. Although we're GUYS, yeah, we have feelings too and it looks like you're not out to intentionally hurt these girls.

But the best thing you can do is be honest if you just want the FB status, you maybe surprised that its all she wants too.

 

[Reyaj]

I think I am going to try. Thanks for the advice. I will post and let everyone know how it goes.

I may have a dat with HB #1 this tuesday for coffee.

 

[Reyaj]

Getting closer to showtime...