Not a problem legally since she's above the age of consent (she's 17). I think it be easy enough to get with her, but what are your opinions? My only issue would be other people's opinion of how they view me. Btw, I know she's slutty because she's admitted to it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Moral dilemma; Slutty high school girl when your in your early to mid twenties?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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i thought 18 is when girls are legal.
Paintballguy
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ThisWarrior74 said:
Why is it even an issue if she is legal? Bang the fvck out of her. Just make sure to wear a rubber.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"My only issue would be other people's opinion of how they view me."
And there's your problem.
Stop giving a fvck what people think and just do what you want to do.
If I were 90 years old and somehow could pull a hot piece of 18 year old ass I could give a fvck less if some judgemental AFC's and busy body feminist hags thought amongst themselves that I was a dirty old man.
That shaming exists to keep people in their place imposing a form of self slavery on themselves with the idea being that certain people will not get all they can get in life because the fear of the shaming humiliation will be too much.
Fvck that.
Fortune favors the bold and its boldness that renders shaming meaningless.
Besides all that having a young hot piece of ass desire you just makes other young chicks want you as well.
Some ultra feminist cougars may not give you the time of day if they learn of your activities but no DJ wants those hags and harpies anyway.
And thats just SOME of the feminist cougars.
The rest will react the same way as the other young chicks who see a young chick desiring you and will want to jump your bones and have what "she's had" despite what they say to their other feminist buddies in private.
So yeah no matter what age you are at its always a-ok to score with a legal piece of pvssy.
And there's your problem.
Stop giving a fvck what people think and just do what you want to do.
If I were 90 years old and somehow could pull a hot piece of 18 year old ass I could give a fvck less if some judgemental AFC's and busy body feminist hags thought amongst themselves that I was a dirty old man.
That shaming exists to keep people in their place imposing a form of self slavery on themselves with the idea being that certain people will not get all they can get in life because the fear of the shaming humiliation will be too much.
Fvck that.
Fortune favors the bold and its boldness that renders shaming meaningless.
Besides all that having a young hot piece of ass desire you just makes other young chicks want you as well.
Some ultra feminist cougars may not give you the time of day if they learn of your activities but no DJ wants those hags and harpies anyway.
And thats just SOME of the feminist cougars.
The rest will react the same way as the other young chicks who see a young chick desiring you and will want to jump your bones and have what "she's had" despite what they say to their other feminist buddies in private.
So yeah no matter what age you are at its always a-ok to score with a legal piece of pvssy.
You know it's wrong. Don't do it.
I don't care if it's legal or illegal. A guy your age getting with a girl her age...you're going to have very little in common. Banging this girl is only going to lead to bad things. At the very least, if you bang this girl it's the equivalent of admitting to yourself that you can't get girls your own age. Other negatives: possible pregnancy (do you want to be stuck the rest of your life with someone you have nothing in common with...and worse, a self-admitted slut?), possible STDs, someone getting attached to the other person (not good because you guys should not realistically be dating). I'm not saying any of that's guaranteed, but even the mere possibility makes it not worth it IMO.
It's great that she's into you, but that doesn't mean you have to be an animal and automatically hit it regardless of the consequences. Your conscience is telling you it's wrong.
I don't care if it's legal or illegal. A guy your age getting with a girl her age...you're going to have very little in common. Banging this girl is only going to lead to bad things. At the very least, if you bang this girl it's the equivalent of admitting to yourself that you can't get girls your own age. Other negatives: possible pregnancy (do you want to be stuck the rest of your life with someone you have nothing in common with...and worse, a self-admitted slut?), possible STDs, someone getting attached to the other person (not good because you guys should not realistically be dating). I'm not saying any of that's guaranteed, but even the mere possibility makes it not worth it IMO.
It's great that she's into you, but that doesn't mean you have to be an animal and automatically hit it regardless of the consequences. Your conscience is telling you it's wrong.
Ah, a dilemma I can certainly relate to. I am 22, and god knows I have been tempted a time or two. I think upperclassmen in highschool are some of the hottest girls out there. The youth, the innocence, the pre-freshman 15 body. But I think I feel ashamed admitting this for a reason. I like what syed said- you obviously feel like there is something iffy about it, so it is probably best to avoid. I know when I was in highschool I wanted to kill those sad ****ing 20-somes who took hot girls out of the dating pool. I thought it was pathetic that they couldn't get somebody their own age.
On the other hand, I think guys are lying if they claim they dont want to **** those 17 year old cheerleaders with their perky little tits bouncing around. We are naturally wired to find them attractive, but it is a matter of PC stigma that makes it feel wrong. I doubt it is worth it, especially if her dad is a big guy.
On the other hand, I think guys are lying if they claim they dont want to **** those 17 year old cheerleaders with their perky little tits bouncing around. We are naturally wired to find them attractive, but it is a matter of PC stigma that makes it feel wrong. I doubt it is worth it, especially if her dad is a big guy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
scrouds
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Ahhhh the usual chick shaming tactics, all laid out in a nice list (Courtsey syed):
*You know it's wrong. Don't do it.
* A guy your age getting with a girl her age...you're going to have very little in common.
*Banging this girl is only going to lead to bad things.
*At the very least, if you bang this girl it's the equivalent of admitting to yourself that you can't get girls your own age.
Other risks that apply to sex in general:
Other negatives: possible pregnancy (do you want to be stuck the rest of your life with someone you have nothing in common with...and worse, a self-admitted slut?), possible STDs, someone getting attached to the other person (not good because you guys should not realistically be dating). I'm not saying any of that's guaranteed, but even the mere possibility makes it not worth it IMO.
Now, finally lets denigrate you into an animal. I mean shiit, all men are animals, right?
It's great that she's into you, but that doesn't mean you have to be an animal and automatically hit it regardless of the consequences. Your conscience is telling you it's wrong.
Hit it man. Hard and fast, just remmeber with these sluts, glazed donut, not boston cream. Keep the filling on the outside.
*You know it's wrong. Don't do it.
* A guy your age getting with a girl her age...you're going to have very little in common.
*Banging this girl is only going to lead to bad things.
*At the very least, if you bang this girl it's the equivalent of admitting to yourself that you can't get girls your own age.
Other risks that apply to sex in general:
Other negatives: possible pregnancy (do you want to be stuck the rest of your life with someone you have nothing in common with...and worse, a self-admitted slut?), possible STDs, someone getting attached to the other person (not good because you guys should not realistically be dating). I'm not saying any of that's guaranteed, but even the mere possibility makes it not worth it IMO.
Now, finally lets denigrate you into an animal. I mean shiit, all men are animals, right?
It's great that she's into you, but that doesn't mean you have to be an animal and automatically hit it regardless of the consequences. Your conscience is telling you it's wrong.
Hit it man. Hard and fast, just remmeber with these sluts, glazed donut, not boston cream. Keep the filling on the outside.
You have got to be kidding me. So he should risk stds, getting attached and pregnancy with someone his own age? Is that your logic? Or he shouldn't be risking those things at all? He should wait till he falls and love and gets married to a woman his exact age? LULZ! Why are you even here?syed said:
So I shouldn't be dating a 25 year old who is ten years younger than me because that's admitting I can't get someone my own age? You got to be kidding me. Women my own age don't look like 25 year olds do naked.
When I was in high school, all of the hot girls were dating college guys. When I was in college all of the hot freshman were dating upper classmen. When I was an upperclassmen the girls were dating guys with careers. Now that I'm in the world the hot chics are dating the guy with the most money and clout. This is the way the world works. Women date up in status. Don't hate the player, hate the game.
I do agree with you on this, most of the girls I know have dated/are dating guys much older than them (like 10-15 years older). The only difference is that they were at least 18 when they did that. Trust me, if this girl was a year older I wouldn't be hesitating at all (I just realized how stupid that sounded, like a year is a huge amount of time).Warrior74 said:
Still don't know what to do. Hmm, damn sexy teenagers
Are you kidding me man!?!? HIT IT!!! if you dont, some other guy will, and he'll be loving it!!!!!
It's life man, its what we have c0cks for! to fvck hot chicks!!!
Im from UK, and legal consent is 16 also. Nothing wrong with screwing a girl 17 if shes up for it!! Ignore all the douches on here!
It's life man, its what we have c0cks for! to fvck hot chicks!!!
Im from UK, and legal consent is 16 also. Nothing wrong with screwing a girl 17 if shes up for it!! Ignore all the douches on here!
Great, so I guess a DJ is someone who has sex with any girl that will let him.
That's not someone I'm aspiring to be.
Having sex with any girl who shows interest in me is animalistic. I'm better than that. I choose who I have sex with. Just as much as they choose me. You guys speak about how society has programmed us to say 17 year-old girls are a no-no. The irony is that YOU are also demonstrating how you've been programmed by society that having sex with as many girls as possible is the way to go. There's consequences to this ****. People fall in love. People can get pregnant. People can get STDs. Let's have some standards, here.
I'm not an animal. I won't have sex with a girl just because she'll LET me. This guy knows it's wrong. Period. It's great that this girl is interested, now use that confidence to go out and find a great girl you can relate to. Choose who you have sex with. Don't be like that fat guy who takes whatever he can get. Go out and make it happen with an awesome girl.
That's not someone I'm aspiring to be.
Having sex with any girl who shows interest in me is animalistic. I'm better than that. I choose who I have sex with. Just as much as they choose me. You guys speak about how society has programmed us to say 17 year-old girls are a no-no. The irony is that YOU are also demonstrating how you've been programmed by society that having sex with as many girls as possible is the way to go. There's consequences to this ****. People fall in love. People can get pregnant. People can get STDs. Let's have some standards, here.
I'm not an animal. I won't have sex with a girl just because she'll LET me. This guy knows it's wrong. Period. It's great that this girl is interested, now use that confidence to go out and find a great girl you can relate to. Choose who you have sex with. Don't be like that fat guy who takes whatever he can get. Go out and make it happen with an awesome girl.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
scrouds
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A DJ doesn't forego things he likes with people he likes cause of bullshiit feminist social convention.
Your fear mongering about pregnancy and STDs is just another tool, this time to scare, not shame.
Interesting how you lump love into the aspect of fear. Is that something you are personally afraid of?
Your fear mongering about pregnancy and STDs is just another tool, this time to scare, not shame.
Interesting how you lump love into the aspect of fear. Is that something you are personally afraid of?
Great, so I guess a DJ is someone who has sex with any girl that will let him.
That's not someone I'm aspiring to be.
Having sex with any girl who shows interest in me is animalistic. I'm better than that. I choose who I have sex with. Just as much as they choose me. You guys speak about how society has programmed us to say 17 year-old girls are a no-no. The irony is that YOU are also demonstrating how you've been programmed by society that having sex with as many girls as possible is the way to go. There's consequences to this ****. People fall in love. People can get pregnant. People can get STDs. Let's have some standards, here.
I'm not an animal. I won't have sex with a girl just because she'll LET me. This guy knows it's wrong. Period. It's great that this girl is interested, now use that confidence to go out and find a great girl you can relate to. Choose who you have sex with. Don't be like that fat guy who takes whatever he can get. Go out and make it happen with an awesome girl.
The want to have sex with as many girls as possible is not socially programmed but biological. If you want to live your life by some oudated fairy tale nonsense that was in fact programmed by society then by all means do so. Just don't force your own personal beliefs on others through shame and fear. If it's legal and some 17 year old girl came on to me I'd take it. You only live once.
That's not someone I'm aspiring to be.
Having sex with any girl who shows interest in me is animalistic. I'm better than that. I choose who I have sex with. Just as much as they choose me. You guys speak about how society has programmed us to say 17 year-old girls are a no-no. The irony is that YOU are also demonstrating how you've been programmed by society that having sex with as many girls as possible is the way to go. There's consequences to this ****. People fall in love. People can get pregnant. People can get STDs. Let's have some standards, here.
I'm not an animal. I won't have sex with a girl just because she'll LET me. This guy knows it's wrong. Period. It's great that this girl is interested, now use that confidence to go out and find a great girl you can relate to. Choose who you have sex with. Don't be like that fat guy who takes whatever he can get. Go out and make it happen with an awesome girl.
The want to have sex with as many girls as possible is not socially programmed but biological. If you want to live your life by some oudated fairy tale nonsense that was in fact programmed by society then by all means do so. Just don't force your own personal beliefs on others through shame and fear. If it's legal and some 17 year old girl came on to me I'd take it. You only live once.
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Popular misconception. 18 is legal age of adulthood, but age of consent in most states is 16 in the US.BongDuy said:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America
If he likes her, and she likes him, and it's legal, what is the problem?syed said:
if you want to to shame someone...go shame the PM of Italy and see if he gives a fvck what you or even his wife thinks.
http://newsbizarre.com/2009/05/noemi-letizia-pictures-italian-girl-18.html
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.