GrowingPains
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Grab your fvcking balls and make the changes you need to get yourself out of whatever hole you're in in life.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Grab your fvcking balls and make the changes you need to get yourself out of whatever hole you're in in life.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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When I watch that scene, I always think if that had been real life, he would have missed the ledge and fallen to his death.
SoSuave666
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The message is clear: either get out, or die trying. No safety nets (ropes), no dipping your toes in the water. Whatever decision you make, if it is important enough to you, is do or die.
Atom Smasher
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It's good to see Bill Cosby working again.
MillionBillionaire
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Dumbest scene in a movie ever. why the fvck would they leave a prision open so prisoners can escape?
Such a dumb movie. Just my opinion.
Such a dumb movie. Just my opinion.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.