“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mood music?

Warrior74

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I'm putting together some new slow jam mixes so I want something new. I like a lot of old school RnB myself, but it's always good to change up the style. What sort of music/artist do you guys play when your at the crib with a chic? Does it change depending on her age, race, class?

I ask in this forum mainly because the guys here tend to date in a larger age range than in the regular forums and I'd like to know if there is any major difference in what you do with a 21 year old vs a 30+ woman.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Crib music? Sweet i'll lurk here for a little while longer.

Most of my "quality time" music is dutch so its of little use.
 

Mr. Me

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Rock music in bed.

Also, believe it or not, movie soundtracks are awesome. This may sound like a joke, but check out the theme for "The Mask of Zorro" Had a 30+ y.o. girl once just wanted it to loop all night long. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8vt1EVBQnCo

Helps if you whisper a little Spanish in their ear. Doesn't matter what you say if they don't know Spanish.

Speaking of movie soundtracks, the opening theme to the movie soundtrack "Somewhere In Time" is WAY romantic. I like Enya too.
 

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If you are, say 3,4 dates in and looking to advance.....age 30+, I've had 100% success with Barry White.

Laugh all you want, but it works.
 

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Equally as effective: Frank Sinatra - actually works better as background (i.e. dinner music) than Barry, but kickass. Especially his romantic albums. Sammy Davis Jr. too.

If you think your hottie has even a slight clue who the Rat Pack was, you cant go wrong with this stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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30+ I like Babyface, Brian McKnight, some Keith Sweat....

I have a couple of mood CDs put together - includes some Kenny G and Jim Brickman along with the above.
 

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Most of the best music I have found for "Mood" or "Ambiance" comes from some artists that are less known, a lot of world music on compilation cd's, coffee house music, lesser known tracks from well known artists, acoustic singers/songwriters, etc. I like making playlists on iTunes, and playing compilation cd's. Movie soundtracks are pretty good, specially the movie scores, with the instrumental music.

The girls, regardless of age, always ask, "Who's singing this?" "I like your music, who is it?".
 
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