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I'll be heading up there for a few days. Does anyone know what are some cool places to hit up? In particular, where are can I find the pretty ladies? Oh and my French is pretty much non-existent. Is that going to be an issue?

Sorry if this is the wrong forum. I wasn't sure if this belongs here. If it doesn't, feel free to move it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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everywhere.


French 1/5 girls will not or pretend that she doesnt speak English.



Clubs are popular, but good luck getting a girl from a club.


there are 2 main venues: St laurent street with clubs

and Crescent with some clubs and restaraunts



younger chicks - STL - radio, tokyo, Go Go lounge, side B.

crescent - 1234, cougars - Thursdays.

BIG club expensive - Opera, great on Sundays (if they are still open i heard they closed)


There are some bars ..there is one right by subway off of St Catherine's (not on it) and there is a bar that has like $1 drinks on wed or thurs, i heard a big crowd there usually.


but if you just walk St Laurent on weekend you'll be happy. Good luck getting in nicer places :)
 
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Oxide said:
everywhere.


French 1/5 girls will not or pretend that she doesnt speak English.



Clubs are popular, but good luck getting a girl from a club.


there are 2 main venues: St laurent street with clubs

and Crescent with some clubs and restaraunts



younger chicks - STL - radio, tokyo, Go Go lounge, side B.

crescent - 1234, cougars - Thursdays.

BIG club expensive - Opera, great on Sundays (if they are still open i heard they closed)


There are some bars ..there is one right by subway off of St Catherine's (not on it) and there is a bar that has like $1 drinks on wed or thurs, i heard a big crowd there usually.


but if you just walk St Laurent on weekend you'll be happy. Good luck getting in nicer places :)
Unless you look like or act like a euro pvssy with lots of $$, you have close to no chance with the HOTTEST girls in Montreal (I've tried, and failed, so I speak from experience).............your best bet is to hit on girls who are cute and friendly, but not hot and bytchy-looking (you know what I mean).

And bars are much better than clubs for that to happen.........also, nothing wrong with getting a $10 handjob from a hot stripper at any of the strip clubs on St. Catherine St.
 

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Unless you look like or act like a euro pvssy with lots of $$, you have close to no chance with the HOTTEST girls in Montreal (I've tried, and failed, so I speak from experience).............your best bet is to hit on girls who are cute and friendly, but not hot and bytchy-looking (you know what I mean).

And bars are much better than clubs for that to happen.........also, nothing wrong with getting a $10 handjob from a hot stripper at any of the strip clubs on St. Catherine St.

let's hear some stories. There is some truth to what you are saying - a lot of these girls are all about flash, especially russians and italians.. pretty sad actually


I've been to every place in montreal, so would be funny to hear some stories - like how did you get a bj for $10!!!


agreed on cute girls.. honestly those are the best, easier, down to earth..will fukk.


all the hot girls think they a guy has to pull up in a Bentley with a diamond d!ck I'm laughing because we joke their pu$4y dried up waiting, who the hell do they think they are, I know guys who buy girls and then i got those girls messaging me and my friends because they want a real man.
 

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Studenty, less pretentious bars and clubs are around the St. Laurent strip. If you like the bar scene check out the massive patio at St Sulpice (St denis below Sherbrooke.) Crescent is more of a flashy tourist spot, you'll meet more out-of-towners there. If you want to go the stripper route then I guess you could -- walk around near downtown (or just east of it) for some joints.

1234, 737, and opera are clubs that cater to that actual typical club scene if that's your bag. I'd take 1234 or Opera over 737 though, just better atmospheres. Also lately some friends have been hitting La Boom for the girls there, I haven't been in ages so I can only mention it, not recommend it.

I don't find girls uptight or anything here but then again I've lived here a while so I guess I'm not outside looking in. Enjoy.
 

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Oxide said:
let's hear some stories. There is some truth to what you are saying - a lot of these girls are all about flash, especially russians and italians.. pretty sad actually


I've been to every place in montreal, so would be funny to hear some stories - like how did you get a bj for $10!!!


agreed on cute girls.. honestly those are the best, easier, down to earth..will fukk.


all the hot girls think they a guy has to pull up in a Bentley with a diamond d!ck I'm laughing because we joke their pu$4y dried up waiting, who the hell do they think they are, I know guys who buy girls and then i got those girls messaging me and my friends because they want a real man.

Well, I have never been more flat out rejected than when I went up to hot Montreal chicks in short skirts with all their make up on and all that......I was going up to them at the club, and was getting instantly rejected without a 2nd thought, simply because I looked/dressed like an American, despite the fact that I was confident and looking good.......and I saw the kind of guys these girls did go for......rich euro-AFC's is a good way to describe them, it was as if all of the hottest girls were judging me before I even opened my mouth, and because I didn't look rich or euro, I had NO shot.

I didn't say $10 bj, I said $10 handjob.........there's a strip club on St. Catherine St called Supersexxx or something like that.......lap dance a couple of years ago cost me $10..........but a lap dance at that club meant that I get a 3 minute, full hands on private dance in a covered up booth, at which point I asked the stripper if I could jerk off while she did her "1 song lap dance".....so there I was jerkin off until I came with 1 hand on my d1ck, my other hand on her azz, and my face kissing her stomach........$10 well spent, SERIOUSLY lol
 

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Well, I have never been more flat out rejected than when I went up to hot Montreal chicks in short skirts with all their make up on and all that......I was going up to them at the club, and was getting instantly rejected without a 2nd thought, simply because I looked/dressed like an American, despite the fact that I was confident and looking good.......and I saw the kind of guys these girls did go for......rich euro-AFC's is a good way to describe them, it was as if all of the hottest girls were judging me before I even opened my mouth, and because I didn't look rich or euro, I had NO shot.

I didn't say $10 bj, I said $10 handjob.........there's a strip club on St. Catherine St called Supersexxx or something like that.......lap dance a couple of years ago cost me $10..........but a lap dance at that club meant that I get a 3 minute, full hands on private dance in a covered up booth, at which point I asked the stripper if I could jerk off while she did her "1 song lap dance".....so there I was jerkin off until I came with 1 hand on my d1ck, my other hand on her azz, and my face kissing her stomach........$10 well spent, SERIOUSLY lol

damn, i was there and lapdances were $20 and i was too cheap! i ****ing hate the attitudes of everyone working there, we had to pay the guy to lead us to the table?!!!! good thing we brought own girls so we had fun anyway.


st suplice is AWESOME but come on, everyone is french gonna be hard, but i think worth a shot to see if anyone will sleep with the American boy ;)

those girls who rejected you at first - whatever, i had that happen, you just gotta go hard - "Hey im talking to you!" I would grab a girl's arm time to time or straight up show her I am not going away - somehow they remembered English very quick after that :)


Check out hostels see if you can roll with the people from there, should be a good time.

man I am hungry for some smoked meat now
 

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Yeah, as for the whole french thing it basically means you'll have a slightly smaller pool of girls you can communicate with. Not a huge deal, but speaking french here has its perks.
 

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Thanks for the info guys! I'm really looking forward to it. I'm also heading to Toronto for a couple of days too. Should be sweet.
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I live in montreal, Love it here; although I've never been into the "clubbin" scene.

St. Laurent area and Crecent have both been named numerous times, I agree wholeheartedly. crecent is slightly less pretentious, and less expensive, but more of a "bar/lounge" attitude.

My 2 cents: depending on which mood you are in, hit one, then take a cab to the other street. start from the south of crecent starting from rene-levesque, and head all the way up to sherbrooke, stop in any nice clubs.

then hit st laurent, from chinatown
 

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Oxide said:
let's hear some stories. There is some truth to what you are saying - a lot of these girls are all about flash, especially russians and italians.. pretty sad actually


I've been to every place in montreal, so would be funny to hear some stories - like how did you get a bj for $10!!!


agreed on cute girls.. honestly those are the best, easier, down to earth..will fukk.


all the hot girls think they a guy has to pull up in a Bentley with a diamond d!ck I'm laughing because we joke their pu$4y dried up waiting, who the hell do they think they are, I know guys who buy girls and then i got those girls messaging me and my friends because they want a real man.
Russian immigrants in Montreal?? Are you crazy? Montreal is made up of mostly French, Italians, Lebanese, Greeks, Portuguese, Haitians, and some Jews. The Italians are mixed with French, Lebanese, Greek, Irish blood for the most part these days. Montreal never had a large East European or German immigrant pool. If you want Italians and East Europeans go to Brazil. The Italians in Montreal barely speak any Italian.

Montreal is a mixed city. Of Anglophone and Francophone culture. You boys should stick with the horny Anglos. None of you fit in with the French speaking world. If you did you wouldn't be a part of this forum.
 

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Russian immigrants in Montreal?? Are you crazy? Montreal is made up of mostly French, Italians, Lebanese, Greeks, Portuguese, Haitians, and some Jews. The Italians are mixed with French, Lebanese, Greek, Irish blood for the most part these days. Montreal never had a large East European or German immigrant pool. If you want Italians and East Europeans go to Brazil. The Italians in Montreal barely speak any Italian.

Montreal is a mixed city. Of Anglophone and Francophone culture. You boys should stick with the horny Anglos. None of you fit in with the French speaking world. If you did you wouldn't be a part of this forum.

Ahh, perfect. Rushes in thinking he knows better than everyone and makes himself look a close minded douche. Bravo.
 

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Ahh, perfect. Rushes in thinking he knows better than everyone and makes himself look a close minded douche. Bravo.
I'm guessing that us "Anglos" must have dealt his country an a$$ whuppin' at some point and he's just bitter about it.
 

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actually BigJim's not far off. Don't know too many russians or germans (know a few germans though) it's REALLY multicultural here, and even if the girls do not speak english well, you can get a convo going.

Even though I've lived here my ENTIRE life, I do not speak french good, (blame my introvert self) only after i got a temp job in retailfor the specific purpose of forcing myself to speak french and to actual people did I start getting better.
 

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What do you want me to say? I know a lot of Russians in Montreal.

If you go to a very nice club, you will see a lot of arabs, italians (and wanna be's) some Russians and some few Quebequa. If you go to some decent place then it's different.

St Sulpice - all Quaqs.



Whats that place on the corner before Radio - MEDT? It's a supper club with a lot of younger chicks... saw some punk looking kid whip out a roll of money probably around 2-3g's, then start smoking a joint in front of the cops... incredible.
 

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Hey just saw this old post, anyone still in mtl want to go hangout in the club scene for sarging etc?
 

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We're probably getting off-topic with this but my impression is the Russian population is further over near NDG and not nearly as numerous as italian, portuguese, etc.
 
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