Montreal" Field Reports

[Yo'Mama]

Ok, after a couple of threads trying to find a wingman here, I'm just going to get on with it myself. I've never written any field reports before but I enjoy reading them the most out of all the posts on this forum so, after leeching, vampire-like off the work of others for years, I figure it's time to give something back.

Background

I'm here for a month. I've been taking some time out from my gig as a lawyer to travel solo. I don't have any particular reason for being in Montreal - I just heard it was a cool city with hot women. I also would like to study French (which I used to speak reasonably well but I'm very out of practice.

I'm staying in a prime location (St Laurent Boulevard) in an apartment I found via Air B'n'b.

So far

I pipelined a fair bit before I got here (Match, POF). I've got a few online plates spinning but only one date so far, with Turkish HB7, which went pretty well.

It's cold here, I've arrived right at the end of winter. I'm sure spring/summer would be much better but this is the only time I can be here so I'm going to make the best of it.

There are a lot of hot women about, there's no denying it. Montreal compares favorably to almost any city I've been in. There's just no shortage of targets here.

I only know one person here, a HB7 I met while travelling in the US who is in love with me but I have only limited interest in. I can well imagine calling her after some drunken, unsuccessful night out, but I am going to try not to.

I went out on Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Thursday I got a make-out with, ironically I think, a girl from Toronto, HB6 only. After that I don't remember much of the night, but I managed to lose a really expensive coat. Friday I hit up a couple of clubs on my street (which prompted my thread about rude girls in clubs). Saturday, I also hit up a bar (called 'Rouge'). No success really, I just ended up bar hopping with some fun girls from Nova Scotia.

I'm having a really good time so far, albeit with little success. I'm massively jetlagged and need to get into a decent sleeping/eating routine. I run 10km-15km three to four times a week (I know, I know, running on SoSuave is one step above being a crack addict. Unlike everyone else here, it seems, I don't lift. I'm tall and broad shouldered naturally so there's no real need, although I'm sure I could look better if I did. I don't know, I just love running). Anyway I haven't exercised so far. It's been so cold that if I tried to run I'd just get an asthma attack. I hate running indoors but I need to join a gym. Maybe I will give weights a go.

Drinking doesn't really help my game at all but I do enjoy rolling out and getting fairly smashed and into random situations. Maybe I'll limit that to once a week though. Drinking heavily on Thursday, Friday and Saturday has pretty much killed me. Combined with the jetlag and terrible insomnia I'm pretty exhausted.

I'm planning to head out tonight and will post. Then I have dates lined up (from online) during the week. One advantage I have is being a very well spoken Brit. The girls seem to like the accent (it has worked for me before in the US).

I have never really done daygame. Actually I've only done it once and the one time I did it, it worked! I just don't feel comfortable doing Sasha style approaching (I don't want to clown to get women). I should give it a go though.

By the way there are no language barriers here. I was expecting lack of French to be a problem but so far everybody speaks fluent English and nobody has given me any kind of attitude about not speaking French. Apart from those b**ches in the club on Friday, people have been extremely friendly.

Edit: Could one of the mods kindly get rid of the stray quotation mark in the title? I can't seem to edit it and it... bothers me. Thanks.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Not much interest in this it seems but wanted to update anyway.

I'm really glad I pipelined before coming here. POF has been useless. Despite numerous conversations and 'interest' I haven't actually met one girl off that site.

Match has been much better. I've met a few girls off there, all going pretty well, especially with a Colombian HB8. Lots of making out but she won't fvck yet. Am hoping it's a matter of time.

I got one makeout in a bar on my first night here. But apart from that I'm doing awfully in clubs. I do actually feel too old, at 36. Plus everybody seems to be in some big group. I thought Montreal was going to be pretty easy to pick chicks up in at night. But that hasn't worked out so far. I'll tall, good looking, in good shape (I say this not to brag but just to put this into context). So far girls just haven't been that friendly or approachable here. At all. A lot of guys seem to have a hipster vibe. I'm no hipster, pretty clean cut actually.

I'm only a week in but so far it's been a bit disappointing to be honest. I'll go out again tonight but am becoming increasingly pessimistic. I always preferred rolling solo but do feel that not having a wing here is hurting me quite badly. I don't feel like I have the pulse of this place yet, I'm missing something.

I've heard it said that opening in French is the way to go but my French sucks and everybody speaks pretty much perfect English.

It's a cool city but social circle seems paramount here, and I don't have one.

Any Montreal specific tips, advice, etc would be more than welcome. I think I might stick to bars, clubs just aren't doing it at all. Haven't even tried day game yet, but that might be my next port of call.

 

[suspected_file_swap]

Not much interest in this it seems but wanted to update anyway.

I'm really glad I pipelined before coming here. POF has been useless. Despite numerous conversations and 'interest' I haven't actually met one girl off that site.

Match has been much better. I've met a few girls off there, all going pretty well, especially with a Colombian HB8. Lots of making out but she won't fvck yet. Am hoping it's a matter of time.

I got one makeout in a bar on my first night here. But apart from that I'm doing awfully in clubs. I do actually feel too old, at 36. Plus everybody seems to be in some big group. I thought Montreal was going to be pretty easy to pick chicks up in at night. But that hasn't worked out so far. I'll tall, good looking, in good shape (I say this not to brag but just to put this into context). So far girls just haven't been that friendly or approachable here. At all. A lot of guys seem to have a hipster vibe. I'm no hipster, pretty clean cut actually.

I'm only a week in but so far it's been a bit disappointing to be honest. I'll go out again tonight but am becoming increasingly pessimistic. I always preferred rolling solo but do feel that not having a wing here is hurting me quite badly. I don't feel like I have the pulse of this place yet, I'm missing something.

I've heard it said that opening in French is the way to go but my French sucks and everybody speaks pretty much perfect English.

It's a cool city but social circle seems paramount here, and I don't have one.

Any Montreal specific tips, advice, etc would be more than welcome. I think I might stick to bars, clubs just aren't doing it at all. Haven't even tried day game yet, but that might be my next port of call.

For whatever reason day gaming is much easier here..........Club scene can be good, but if your going solo it may come across as akward.

Next week will be a little bit warmer, try doing some tourist type stuff and talk to girls you meet along the way.

GL

 

[Yo'Mama]

So far it has been awkward! Are you in Montreal by the way (I know your location says Cayman).

I'll give Day Game a go. I don't know, I like going out, having a few drinks and hitting on the ladies. But so far it hasn't been going great. Seems like a place that's pretty big on social circle, not the best place for lone operators.

 

[suspected_file_swap]

I have been living in Montreal for 7 years now,

Chicks will always go to the clubs with a large group, so approaching one amongst her friends while you are alone will be tough.

The clubs on St Laurent are a little more mature, with more girls our age............but ideally , I would think you would have better luck day gaming, especially in spring ( it is usually much warmer by now )

GL

 

[Yo'Mama]

Yeah, thanks man. What you said is exactly what I have seen. I'm not doing remotely well at bars or clubs here. Big, impenetrable groups. I would kill it in Tokyo but it's so, so different here. Let me know if you do fancy heading out. Frankly I don't know any guys here and a wing would be a Godsend. It would also be cool just to have a guy friend to hang out with. But I imagine you've got a social circle pretty sorted here.

Online has been a different story. Pipelining was the BEST thing I have done before coming here. I now have four girls, all good quality, on the go. I actually really like spending time with them. They're from different backgrounds (Tunisia (but grew up here), Swiss, Turkish and Eurasian). I'm having a great time with it but I do want to meet women in real life as well.

I can say that the quality of women here is amazing. Way better than any other city I've been to, and I've been to a lot. Jaw droppingly beautiful girls everywhere. I can only imagine what kind of earthly paradise this place becomes in summer.