"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Monotone voice

comic_relief

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Does anyone know how to get rid of a monotone voice?

Anyone know of anything that I can do to get rid of my monotone voice? I have not heard anyway to get rid of it, but I know that it is holding me back from a great success.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Learn how to change the tone of your voice. Duh. Emphasize words, put some emotion into it. Change the speed of your words etc.
 

MuayThai

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Deep and consistent tone is deffinatly the most attractive voice for a man. Or so i've heard.

As for a monotone voice you gotta practice in your daily life diffrent speaking i.e speaking loudly, quitely, shouting, funnny voices? Just try to break out fo your normal speaking. Then you voice will sound more "normal" over time.
 
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