Monk mode or nah?

[Anpha]

Hey guys, really appreciate any advice on this topic.

I’m not the best looking guy, i’d probably say 4/10. Nothing some weight loss wouldn’t fix. Anyway, i recently broke up with my ltr, and thinking if I should either
A) date women in my league for experience (not really my type - but still experience)
B) focus on myself (monk mode)

I have 2 years left of university, and I’m thinking would it be beneficial to just chuck myself into it, and start hitting on everything and anything? Because all i’ve go to lose is ego and everything to gain, experience, knowledge of game, dating different types of chicks etc. I would of course work on myself and focus on my career during this time, just relationship wise, was wondering if it’s better to gain some experience, compared to say going into monk mode, coming out a good 7/10 and trying to date better HBs.

I’m 22, considered myself pretty good looking but still on the heavy side. And I can tell now, from my past girlfriends and plates, I probably am not at the best I can be. Cheers for any advice

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Liposuction!

 

[dustmuffin]

Work on yourself. Finish University and then you can work on women. Go to the gym and lose the weight.

 

[resilient]

I would go monk mode, hit the gym hard, yet keep your options open.

You don't want to get rusty in set.

Talk to everyone you pass for the confidence boost: Sales clerk, coffee barista, people that are standing in line with you. Key here is all ages. You don't want to just aim for HB8-10s. I like using this line at the cash register "How's your day going so far" (slight grin) whatever she gives you, use that for a brief exchange and go from there.

Talking to lower HBs helps you treat all women the same so that won't stall your approach.

Start a study group and post your details on bulletin boards across campus. You can build up contacts this way.

Bring people into your world and keep your hobbies rock steady.

At 22, you have to work on establishing who you are as a person, so you can benefit from that work in your later 20s and 30s.

 

[amaterasu]

I would go monk mode, hit the gym hard, yet keep your options open.

You don't want to get rusty in set.

Talk to everyone you pass for the confidence boost: Sales clerk, coffee barista, people that are standing in line with you. Key here is all ages. You don't want to just aim for HB8-10s. I like using this line at the cash register "How's your day going so far" (slight grin) whatever she gives you, use that for a brief exchange and go from there.

Talking to lower HBs helps you treat all women the same so that won't stall your approach.

Start a study group and post your details on bulletin boards across campus. You can build up contacts this way.

Bring people into your world and keep your hobbies rock steady.

At 22, you have to work on establishing who you are as a person, so you can benefit from that work in your later 20s and 30s.

This is going to be an exciting journey for you.

I came from an ltr too.

I never regretted anything when I chose monk mode (DJing, to improve other aspects in my life), over replacing my ex with another one.

It took years for me to get stronger and emotionally controlled but I'm happy that I established a very good foundation within me.

But of course, you need to enhance your communication skills and level up your confidence.

You continue to talk to all women and treat them as nice as possible, as if they were all HB 10

Talk to everyone one too, that is the daily grind of a true DJ

If you have the chance to speak with the president of the United States of America, go ahead and talk to him without any hesitation.

That is the confidence and communication level that you should achieve

 

[Anpha]

Too many posts to reply to, appreciate all the advice fellas. I’ll continue building upon my life instead of going straight back into the market. It’s strange that the answer seems so simple when you take a step back, but in the now, when emotions and my **** are controlling my motives, it doesn’t show as the clear option. I’m just chasing tail with an excuse of ‘experience’. Thanks.