"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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money over ******s

goodlistener

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what is the best 20 year old man can do to improve his life right now ?

SO THAT HE HAVE SO MANY FISHES IN THE SEA TO PICK ON
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Allurre

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Simple.

1. Stay ambitious - stack your cash to stagger heights.
2. Continuously grow. Seek for growth always. To learn is to earn.
3. Become a better man in whichever way you can.
4. Don't prioritize women on your goal list. They are your bonus for your success.
5. Enjoy life. Be the life of the party. The ladies can't help but notice thereafter.
 

RSanders219

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set goals man, make a list of things you wish to achieve in life. Then pick the one(s) that seem accomplishable right now and plan your way toward them.

For example, I'm a musician and an artist. Right now I'm teaching myself to become a better painter and saving money for a really nice amplifier.

- What I am doing to achieve these goals is...
a.) enrolling in a few art courses at night at the local community college
as well as learning from books I have bought or withdrew from the
library
b.) I am working full time to save for that guitar amplifier. I plan on
saving $100 per week, and am looking into the whole ebay buy and
sell thing to increase that profit margin to $200 a week.
 

sirBill

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What they all said.

Women are not the goal at this point in your life. Build mountains and empires right now. Try as hard as you can to do as much as you can while your brain still has some elasticity to it. Work as hard as you can and yes even play hard when the opportunity presents itself.

Save as much money as you can, ideally 50% of your income should just go straight into savings, once you have $10-20k start investing and learn the markets.

Think, all the time try to see things differently and generate new ideas, study something new and emerging in fields of tech and sci. Get an idea and run with it, build a company.

The guys that are really successful with life are usually well on their way by this point. Get out there and do something interesting.
 

goodlistener

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Don't prioritize women on your goal list.


MOTIVATES me alot . im really not into myself right now because
i dont have a car , and i might lose my girlfriend for not having that crap
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ChalengeGuyFan

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goodlistener said:
Don't prioritize women on your goal list.


MOTIVATES me alot . im really not into myself right now because
i dont have a car , and i might lose my girlfriend for not having that crap
LOL! Some issues people have!
 
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