Got myself into sticky situation, competing with another guy for a hot chick. He's rich; I'm powerful. Avoiding loss of face means I can't back down now. I'd just like an assessment of the odds so I know what kind of battle I'm fighting. In a competition of this sort, who usually wins: the one who can buy her expensive things or the one who can introduce her to ex-Cabinet members?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Money or Power?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
alphawolfx
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The one who makes her feel the most attraction.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
well fist off.....it is. i mean you will attract more women cause you open up for the gold diggers. It shows confidence as well
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
money=power
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Devestator
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How are you more powerful than him?
It depemds what the chick is after. If she is a mercenary, obviously she wouldn't give a damn about power. Mercenarys prefer men who inherited their wealth, because they are easier to manipulate. If a man is powerful, that means he is dangerous. So a mercenary may not want to mess with that.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
Ross Jeffries said something that stuck with me and when you think about it he's absolutely right (about something atleast).
Influence is the key. With influence you can get money and influence those with power. There's not much you can't achieve without a lot of influence.
Influence is the key. With influence you can get money and influence those with power. There's not much you can't achieve without a lot of influence.
I'm more powerful than him in that Iwhile I lack his personal wealth (or rather parental wealth that they let him use) I do control a political organization, I have connections in Congress and the last President's cabinet, and I'm the one whose work has been covered by the state newspapers.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Wealth enforces will.
Power isn't what women find attractive, it's a man's status and the desire to become associated with that status. This is why attorneys and business executives get hot women in the same way drug lords and gang leaders do - status. Status implies security and that is her primary drive.
Power isn't what women find attractive, it's a man's status and the desire to become associated with that status. This is why attorneys and business executives get hot women in the same way drug lords and gang leaders do - status. Status implies security and that is her primary drive.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
you have got somthing wrong, it is not money or power, it is money equals power, confidence also equals power and so does being an alpha male.
Power is vital, weather through money, or confidence or being an alpha male, money on the otherhand is not vital it is just 1 possible componenet of power.
people think power and moeny are seprate, but money is a sub catogrey of power and is 1 way of getting that vital power.
Power is vital, weather through money, or confidence or being an alpha male, money on the otherhand is not vital it is just 1 possible componenet of power.
people think power and moeny are seprate, but money is a sub catogrey of power and is 1 way of getting that vital power.
biker_gixxer
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Forget money and power. What are you doing competing over a girl bro?
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
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Status, personality, and looks, not necessarily in that order will attract a gal to the man. Money just attracts women to the money itself in absence of the above. Power usually implies status, at least to a great degree, but status can encompass much more.
But the point is well taken that your qualities will make the gal want to get with you, so you're the "wooee," rather than the "wooer," for lack of better phrasing.
Status, personality, and looks, not necessarily in that order will attract a gal to the man. Money just attracts women to the money itself in absence of the above. Power usually implies status, at least to a great degree, but status can encompass much more.
But the point is well taken that your qualities will make the gal want to get with you, so you're the "wooee," rather than the "wooer," for lack of better phrasing.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.