"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Four years ago I lost around 80lbs of fat through diet and exercise. I used Tony Robbins version of NLP (NAC) with modifications to help me emotionally control my eating. I associate all the "bad foods," with every problem that I've ever had; the good foods were associated with my "future self" or better yet the person I wanted to be, and deserved to be.

Fat people are similar to RAFC's; both suffer from dissonance of some kind. Fat people suffer from physical dissonance: wow Im such a great person, I have a great face, but my physical body contradicts who I really am. The RAFC has a problem reconciling his lamely past identiy with his new found knowledge.


It took a little over a year to lose the weight and I have kept it off. I have a photo journal of my old self, and a written journal as well. I think that I can really help fat females conquer obesity.

My plan is to use my life experience to become a weight loss coach to fatties in my home state. For $50 per month these women have full access to me everyday of the week, and personal meetings twice per month. My target number of clients is 150.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds cool. You get to have fat women around you all. Im horny!
 

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Like the song says: I did it for the money.

I can market the hell out of myself. Ironically the same skills that are needed for cold approaches are needed for this same business. Good thing I pretty skilled in that area.
 

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Sounds like a good plan. I recommend becoming a liscenced dietician in the meantime though. Dramatic weightloss can be dangerous if done incorrectly.

And congrats on your amazing weightloss! Do you have your journal/pics on the web? Link?
 

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150 x 50 = 7500/month

for that money i wouldn't mind fatties calling me every day eather... and as a final payment they can give it up (as long as they lost the weight):D good luck
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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im going to post my journal on my new site..
 

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Just don't call them fatties to their face. Unless you like not having customers.
 
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