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Money is how you have sex with the top 5% of women

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Obviously wearing nice clothes, driving a nice car, building a great body, and developing great game are necessities but why do so many guys avoid the golden rule?

Money.

Assuming you have your health and fitness in check, have good style, and develop a good social circle along with strong inner game that comes from years of expeirjcr with women...the more money you make the hotter women you will have access to.

My advice for a young dj? Get a sales job and throw yourself into it. Don’t kill yourself but put in a good 40-50 hours a week.

You want to **** 9’s? Sell like your life depended on it. Become a top guy in the company. Assuming you are reasonably attractive, you shouldn’t have any issue dating the top 5% of women Unless your game sucks
 

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You don't need money to fvck the "top" Women. You need Money to be in a relationship with them though because they will require that their lifestyle be in the 1% or close to it since so many wealthy Men are trying to tie her up. If you use Money to get Women in bed, You will attract the money hungry gold diggers that will bleed you dry financially.
 

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You don't need money to fvck the "top" Women. You need Money to be in a relationship with them though because they will require that their lifestyle be in the 1% or close to it since so many wealthy Men are trying to tie her up. If you use Money to get Women in bed, You will attract the money hungry gold diggers that will bleed you dry financially.
Personally I would consider it the "ultimate challenge" of my own desirability as a man if she craved being with me despite making far more money and status than me. That seems like it would be the ultimate proof that she really wants you as a man.
 
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You don't need money to fvck the "top" Women. You need Money to be in a relationship with them though because they will require that their lifestyle be in the 1% or close to it since so many wealthy Men are trying to tie her up. If you use Money to get Women in bed, You will attract the money hungry gold diggers that will bleed you dry financially.
In my opinion its best she strongly physically desires you
 

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I don't belive we evade the money issue as a atractive method, I take it guys where want a woman who would really want to be with then, no a woman who are opening her legs in hope to get preggo from you as a golden ticket, money make things a lot easier, but also tend you to question everything others do
 

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I don't know what a top 5% woman even is - maybe super hot, classy, from a good family, I don't know?
I guess it would stand to reason that such a woman would want a guy who is the full package - LMS and game.
But from a guy's standpoint, just give him an attractive college age girl, and he'll value that as much as anything, especially for just a quick hookup.
 

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In my opinion its best she strongly physically desires you
Absolutely. If you are wealthy, at some point you will question..... Does she desire me for me or because she gets to ride in my Jaguar F-Type (not even that expensive so maybe Ferrari lol) and sleep in my luxurious house/apartment.
 

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I slept with young 9's when I was in my 20's because of game and attractiveness when I had no money. I still do BUT...at my age the game has changed. Also women my age are also more concerned with substance. Most of the women I date responded to my message online initially (while ignoring most other messages, most told me they get 5--75 messages a day and I was the only one they responded to) because of my looks and education and message (pretty good opener). When we started dating they found out I had my stuff together/am a millionaire which got them more interested/chasing. But I'll tell you that a lot of women will still ignore me despite being good looking, having a high income job and being funny and a millionaire. Attraction for women is faaar more complex.

I'm now on a millionaire dating web site and the results have been staggering. It's still a numbers game just like other web sites, but faaaar better results. I'm dating a 19 year old though she is only dating me for my status for the most part. She told me most of the guys on the site are 70 year old millionaires. I'm the only young verified/certified one in the area, or at least one of a few. I also met and started dating a woman who is a deca millionaire. She initially wouldn't talk to me until I got certified as a millionaire through the web site. Once I did, she was happy to talk to me. Also meeting women all over the country who are attractive but alas, broke hoping to catch a guy like me. I'll still sleep with them (flying there or flying them here). A lot are even cool with the fact that I have a gf and that I expect NSA sex since I already have someone.

And yes, I've posted a picture of my proof from the website that I'm a certified millionaire in the third post in this thread for all the guys who like to follow me around and claim I'm full of crap, which is funny because when I went through their posting history and called them out on not having any posts about women of their own, actually only finding posts talking about how lonely they are and would PAY not to be alone Friday and Saturday nights, they deleted the posts lol. Beware of the posers on here...their user names rhyme with Chump and Mamath...

At the end of the day, men want young, attractive women. Women want wealthy or hot guys. Game can help a lot, or at least keep you from shooting yourself in the foot like I used to in my late teens, early twenties. I got dates with hot women but did all the wrong things and got friend zoned fast. Never had the courage to make a move, go for the kiss, bought dinners, flowers, etc. It took me a while to figure out how NOT to be a nice guy. Then results started happening. I started sleeping with them, converting them to girlfriends, etc.

You can get hot women if you are hot or decent looking and have tons of game but it will still be a numbers game. But your conversion rate from hook up to gf will be super low because you are literally a **** and toss. My conversion rate is 100% for women I sleep with. They all convert to gf's. That said, it's still a numbers game from getting numbers, getting dates, etc. I've heard some guru's who know their stuff say that you can be a woman who is a 6 and just show up to a bar and EVERY guy there will want to **** you. You can be a male 10 and still not be able to close even half of those women at a bar. Unfortunately with women there are a lot more factors to attraction than just looks. Heck, Justin Bieber hit on some chick online and she blew him off...The guy makes 80 mil a year, famous, good looking and has a net worth of 250+ mil. He still got rejected...publicllllyyy....

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ment-of-a-side-love-affair-what-to-do.262810/
 
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I know someone in LA that is literally just 6'4" and that's all it takes for him.

I have a friend here, another major city, equally as expensive as LA, also that tall. He has 100K to his name at 45. He spends money on girls like crazy and they just USE him. He get's a lot of attention due to his height, but he ends up being beta male buying them gifts and expensive dinners their bf's they are actually sleeping with can't. He spent now 25K total in the past year as of recently on ONE girl who has a bf and she has never even touched his ****!!! I tried to talk sense to him and he has no clue. Meanwhile I slept with multiple chics without spending much more than the cost of a drink AFTER I slept with them or a tank of gas to get them back home since they were driving from far away. Again, after I slept with them multiple times all weekend. I'm an 8.5 looks wise girls tell me. But I'm also very funny (****y comedy). I also have my stuff together financially which these women are attracted to. But when I first started talking to them they didn't know I had money. They knew I was educated and that likely meant I had a good job, but they didn't know I was a millionaire. I'm 1" above average height btw...
 

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I slept with young 9's when I was in my 20's because of game and attractiveness when I had no money. I still do BUT...at my age the game has changed. Also women my age are also more concerned with substance. Most of the women I date responded to my message online initially (while ignoring most other messages, most told me they get 5--75 messages a day and I was the only one they responded to) because of my looks and education and message (pretty good opener). When we started dating they found out I had my stuff together/am a millionaire which got them more interested/chasing. But I'll tell you that a lot of women will still ignore me despite being good looking, having a high income job and being funny and a millionaire. Attraction for women is faaar more complex.

I'm now on a millionaire dating web site and the results have been staggering. It's still a numbers game just like other web sites, but faaaar better results. I'm dating a 19 year old though she is only dating me for my status for the most part. She told me most of the guys on the site are 70 year old millionaires. I'm the only young verified/certified one in the area, or at least one of a few. I also met and started dating a woman who is a deca millionaire. She initially wouldn't talk to me until I got certified as a millionaire through the web site. Once I did, she was happy to talk to me. Also meeting women all over the country who are attractive but alas, broke hoping to catch a guy like me. I'll still sleep with them (flying there or flying them here). A lot are even cool with the fact that I have a gf and that I expect NSA sex since I already have someone.

And yes, I've posted a picture of my proof from the website that I'm a certified millionaire in the third post in this thread for all the guys who like to follow me around and claim I'm full of crap, which is funny because when I went through their posting history and called them out on not having any posts about women of their own, actually only finding posts talking about how lonely they are and would PAY not to be alone Friday and Saturday nights, they deleted the posts lol. Beware of the posers on here...their user names rhyme with Chump and Mamath...

At the end of the day, men want young, attractive women. Women want wealthy or hot guys. Game can help a lot, or at least keep you from shooting yourself in the foot like I used to in my late teens, early twenties. I got dates with hot women but did all the wrong things and got friend zoned fast. Never had the courage to make a move, go for the kiss, bought dinners, flowers, etc. It took me a while to figure out how NOT to be a nice guy. Then results started happening. I started sleeping with them, converting them to girlfriends, etc.

You can get hot women if you are hot or decent looking and have tons of game but it will still be a numbers game. But your conversion rate from hook up to gf will be super low because you are literally a **** and toss. My conversion rate is 100% for women I sleep with. They all convert to gf's. That said, it's still a numbers game from getting numbers, getting dates, etc. I've heard some guru's who know their stuff say that you can be a woman who is a 6 and just show up to a bar and EVERY guy there will want to **** you. You can be a male 10 and still not be able to close even half of those women at a bar. Unfortunately with women there are a lot more factors to attraction than just looks. Heck, Justin Bieber hit on some chick online and she blew him off...The guy makes 80 mil a year, famous, good looking and has a net worth of 250+ mil. He still got rejected...publicllllyyy....

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...ment-of-a-side-love-affair-what-to-do.262810/
a small false accusation and and your millions will be transfer either to picket of your lawyer or to her and her lawyer. You are playing a dangerous game on that website
 

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a small false accusation and and your millions will be transfer either to picket of your lawyer or to her and her lawyer. You are playing a dangerous game on that website

I've considered that and it's a good point. I do have texts and video of the encounters (with their knowledge) so it would be difficult to make an accusation that would stick. But, it would still suck as my girl who lives with me would find out. Then again, I'm honestly done with that, it's just the additional drama/hassle of that would suck while being investigated.
 

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I have a friend here, another major city, equally as expensive as LA, also that tall. He has 100K to his name at 45. He spends money on girls like crazy and they just USE him. He get's a lot of attention due to his height, but he ends up being beta male buying them gifts and expensive dinners their bf's they are actually sleeping with can't. He spent now 25K total in the past year as of recently on ONE girl who has a bf and she has never even touched his ****!!! I tried to talk sense to him and he has no clue. Meanwhile I slept with multiple chics without spending much more than the cost of a drink AFTER I slept with them or a tank of gas to get them back home since they were driving from far away. Again, after I slept with them multiple times all weekend. I'm an 8.5 looks wise girls tell me. But I'm also very funny (****y comedy). I also have my stuff together financially which these women are attracted to. But when I first started talking to them they didn't know I had money. They knew I was educated and that likely meant I had a good job, but they didn't know I was a millionaire. I'm 1" above average height btw...

So I seem to have made a break through with some hard love with my buddy, he has stopped buying her gifts and pulled back on my advice. Told him she will turn on the charm to try to win him and the gifts back, but not to bite and watch, she will disappear. Sometimes I hate taking his advice on my situations since he really has NO women, but I will concede that his no talking game is on point. His advice there, which is basically S&D has worked well with my last couple plates.
 

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Never seen a guy close a woman by showing her his bank account balance. Maybe they tell the girl they have some gold stored in their safe and ask if she wants to come see it. Anyone closed a girl by showing her your gold which is real money?
 

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No, you don't need that much money. Get into the Porn Industry. Make a Pierre Woodman of yourself. Forget about dating and marriage. Loose all your warm feeling for human kind.
 

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Obviously wearing nice clothes, driving a nice car, building a great body, and developing great game are necessities but why do so many guys avoid the golden rule?

Money.

Assuming you have your health and fitness in check, have good style, and develop a good social circle along with strong inner game that comes from years of expeirjcr with women...the more money you make the hotter women you will have access to.

My advice for a young dj? Get a sales job and throw yourself into it. Don’t kill yourself but put in a good 40-50 hours a week.

You want to **** 9’s? Sell like your life depended on it. Become a top guy in the company. Assuming you are reasonably attractive, you shouldn’t have any issue dating the top 5% of women Unless your game sucks
Needing money to get girls is begging to be a cuck.

Your default is to chase excellence. Get that gwap. Get paper. Get **** handled. Most guys think money equates to sex. When I was a broke ass college student, i was running game 7x a week, and destroying college girls on the regular. Stunting on phaggots with money.

Getting baeeeees and money should be in your nature. It shouldn't be your upsell in feature unless you are ok with cratered SMV and playing house with chads booty call.

Having game, looks max,mmoney, any of the 3 is OG.


Richard Cooper made a vid of a Danny manlet davittos doppelganger had a series of hotties and paper handled.
By proxy, resources allow for you to travel, live better, and to be able to go places no money can't take you.

i concur with a sales job. learn about people skills. you get instincts for closing and fence sitters. you learn pattern recognition.


Look, ppulling baeeeees or crushing it in biz is arbitrary. You can get girls or not. Not is homo. Not crushing it in biz is phaggotry. You can live a better life or not.


Getting gwap and baeeeees is not synonymous though it can be.
 
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Never seen a guy close a woman by showing her his bank account balance. Maybe they tell the girl they have some gold stored in their safe and ask if she wants to come see it. Anyone closed a girl by showing her your gold which is real money?
A lot of these girls just travel in circles where everybody has a lot of money, they don't need to check somebody's bank account. They don't need to ask Leonardo DiCaprio if he's capable of supporting himself.
 

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In our society, money = power = status. Even if you're not spending a lot of money on women (and you shouldn't be, if you are smart), having money is attractive in and of itself. Having money means that you re successful. It means that you have a certain degree of freedom people without money don't have. It means that you are not a loser. Money isn't everything, but it sure helps.
 

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In our society, money = power = status. Even if you're not spending a lot of money on women (and you shouldn't be, if you are smart), having money is attractive in and of itself.
I've never quite understood why so many posters here claim status is so important, but money doesn't attract at all. As you say, money equates to status to a large degree, or is at least a major factor.
 
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