"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Monday:Day Of The Untold.....

FL BOY

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Alrite, first off i would like too give my upmost appreciation to the sosuave site and the many who dared to make posts to help others in the world find and improve themselves. I started out a typical AFC, had good guy freinds but when it came to girls...well lets just say the bell never rang in my mind for what I should do to "impress" them.That was exactly my problem,tryin to impress them.Anyways School started Thursday and I got consistent eye contact(2 seconds or more,more than once) from girls in 2 of my classes and 2 in lunch.The 2 in lunch are goin to be hard to see again(lunch is zoo at my school).One of the girls in my class that gives my eye contact is a girl that I just dont have much respect for since she treats people at our school that have nothing but a pen and a paper....no freinds.....yet she likes to rag on them.BUT, the last girl that I havent mentioned is a piece of art.9.5 body 9 face.I got a HUGE sign of interest from her in my mind....she was starin at me and I knew it,so I looked over she held for another 1-2 seconds looked away at the ground and started to bite her lip after she glanced again.I dont think anything short of her takin her clothes off and jumpin on me in front of the class is a better sign than that.....anyways Monday with everything I learned from this site, I will get this girl and will have a dam good time doin it........Thank you.By the way, if anyone can give me a good opener to say to this girl, ill be initiating the convo in the middle of class when we go to lunch.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thraxeh

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Originally posted by FL BOY
if anyone can give me a good opener to say to this girl, ill be initiating the convo in the middle of class when we go to lunch.
in the middle of class when we go to lunch ? that makes no sence, but anyway.

dude, u basicly have her, just say

"hey whats up?"

shes says "nothin much"

then you go

"what are you doing saturday(just an example), cause you and me should go and insert date of your choosing here "

get the number and leave.
 

dannowillbookem

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hello. it helps you stand out cause its a word that actually isnt used much, ecspecially amongst hs kids.

or just "hey" lol

but u've got her. just ask hows it going. she'll answer. she might ask how ur doing. say "i saw u in class and ur not bad. gimme your phone number and we can do something sometime."

make sure to have a smile and that "god i'm popular" mindset going. she already digs u from first sight so u won half the battle.
 
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