"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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djaus111000

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moments of weakness...as developing DJ's we all have them, I haven't had one in a while yet today it has happened, I feel slightly AMOG'd, though I know it's not the case.

What do you guys do to blow off steam?

How do you go about explaining yourself/apologising if need be if you've let moment of weakness affect your behaviour?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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every failure is a building block of my palace

reframe it dude, for starters stop calling it a moment of weakness, you are a man, and men are not weak, it was a mistake, a lesson learned, a good thing, for now you have experienced it you have learnt from it, it was inevitable and is now irreversable so take the positive stance not the negative
 
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There is not one guy I know, even the most die hard Dj's out there that dont have a few moments of AFC'ness happen to them. You have two choices.... either give up and resign to being an AFC, or analyze what you did wrong (but don't dwell on it), pick up your socks and try again. Failure often leads to some of the greatest successes out there.
 
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