well op still need to growth up nothing else to it, I never though I would say this but maybe he should look for a psychiatrist,he is possessive, agressive, and violent or he forgot to take his meds or is a troll
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mom being used as a FB by a 57 years old nice guy
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Again no need to post nonsense when you have nothing to say and don't know the language that well.Alvafe said:
By psycho she probably meant 'depressed' etc.
Here is our conversation when I lost my control:
Me: Who were you talking to just now? And why are your hiding your phone?
Her: Yes your senses are right. I was talking to my ****er.
Yes unfortunately that seems inevitable.
Tictac
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Get out of your mother's house.
You hit your mother.
You have no self-control - no more than a boy at 30.
You hit your mother.
You have no self-control - no more than a boy at 30.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Suspens,
Look I don't want to upset you,but this Post is not really about your Mothers Morals is it?....The sort of person with those old traditional values is pretty rare on here....No that is a smoke screen...You and your Siblings are living in a pretty smooth situation,the Doctor poses a threat to that...As I have a Plate in a similar situation,I can assure you your Doctor is quite happy with the way things are ...Sex is a side issue with Older Women anyway,they are more interested in emotional support!
Look I don't want to upset you,but this Post is not really about your Mothers Morals is it?....The sort of person with those old traditional values is pretty rare on here....No that is a smoke screen...You and your Siblings are living in a pretty smooth situation,the Doctor poses a threat to that...As I have a Plate in a similar situation,I can assure you your Doctor is quite happy with the way things are ...Sex is a side issue with Older Women anyway,they are more interested in emotional support!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Suspens,
So what in particular are you having problems with?
So what in particular are you having problems with?
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Put your hands on your zipper.... Do you FEEL a pair of BALLS? Act like you have them and start living YOUR life....WHY would any 28 year old man live with his FAMILY? IF you don't live in a poor neighborhood in a 3rd world country, you should be OUT on your own right after College. OR at 28, you should be established enough in your JOB to move out and make your own way.
Maybe your mother CAN'T land the Doctor, maybe she CAN. It's NOT your place to try to run her life, Hell, you can't even run your own life without sponging off Mommie..... you have NO life experience. You learn to run your life, maybe you can give mom advice.....
Maybe your mother CAN'T land the Doctor, maybe she CAN. It's NOT your place to try to run her life, Hell, you can't even run your own life without sponging off Mommie..... you have NO life experience. You learn to run your life, maybe you can give mom advice.....
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:crackup:sodbuster said:
Bro, you know me better than I know myself. All what you said is the bitter truth. I'm not telling her what to do and what not to do though. I just want her to be in a healthy relationship, based on respect and mutual "love".
Anyway, karma is a b!tch. Got slapped on the back of my head by two random weirdo sickfvcks on the street. Still can't believe that happened.