"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mom being used as a FB by a 57 years old nice guy

Alvafe

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well op still need to growth up nothing else to it, I never though I would say this but maybe he should look for a psychiatrist,he is possessive, agressive, and violent or he forgot to take his meds or is a troll
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alvafe said:
well op still need to growth up nothing else to it, I never though I would say this but maybe he should look for a psychiatrist,he is possessive, agressive, and violent or he forgot to take his meds or is a troll
Again no need to post nonsense when you have nothing to say and don't know the language that well.

So your Mom is right.

You are a psycho.
By psycho she probably meant 'depressed' etc.

Here is our conversation when I lost my control:


Me: Who were you talking to just now? And why are your hiding your phone?

Her: Yes your senses are right. I was talking to my ****er.


You need to move out ASAP
Yes unfortunately that seems inevitable.
 

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Dear Suspens,
Look I don't want to upset you,but this Post is not really about your Mothers Morals is it?....The sort of person with those old traditional values is pretty rare on here....No that is a smoke screen...You and your Siblings are living in a pretty smooth situation,the Doctor poses a threat to that...As I have a Plate in a similar situation,I can assure you your Doctor is quite happy with the way things are ...Sex is a side issue with Older Women anyway,they are more interested in emotional support!
 

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Sorry but I didn't understand what you were trying to say.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dear Suspens,
So what in particular are you having problems with?
 

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Put your hands on your zipper.... Do you FEEL a pair of BALLS? Act like you have them and start living YOUR life....WHY would any 28 year old man live with his FAMILY? IF you don't live in a poor neighborhood in a 3rd world country, you should be OUT on your own right after College. OR at 28, you should be established enough in your JOB to move out and make your own way.

Maybe your mother CAN'T land the Doctor, maybe she CAN. It's NOT your place to try to run her life, Hell, you can't even run your own life without sponging off Mommie..... you have NO life experience. You learn to run your life, maybe you can give mom advice.....
 

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sodbuster said:
Put your hands on your zipper.... Do you FEEL a pair of BALLS?
:crackup:


Bro, you know me better than I know myself. All what you said is the bitter truth. I'm not telling her what to do and what not to do though. I just want her to be in a healthy relationship, based on respect and mutual "love".


Anyway, karma is a b!tch. Got slapped on the back of my head by two random weirdo sickfvcks on the street. Still can't believe that happened.
 
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