"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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moles and birthmarks.

the_azn_fu

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anyone know of a way to remove moles or blackheads without laser treatment? Like a natural cure or something. Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I didn't know you could remove moles with lasers...I've had several removed by my dermatologist (she also checked for melanoma). She would always use a scalpel and coderize it (mmm burnt flesh lol), after anestitizing the area.

I've also had blackheads removed by my dermatologist. They have special tools used to do it.

Peter, you're crazy lol
 

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I had a mole on my hand, basically I would CUT it off with a nail clipper but it would grow back again, guess it was part of my DNA. Then I started applying this really strong acid on it, when it eventually died and fell off -- never grew back again, the skin where it was is perfectly normal and it is impossible to tell I've ever had a really huge, ugly mole.
 

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hi!
thanks for the reply. can you tell me what kind of acid you used and how you applied it? and do you think your method would be safe for the face? thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HAHA!! You guys are all nuts!! No way are you supposed to remove a mole on your own with a knife or acid!!
 

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adpreston1988 said:
HAHA!! You guys are all nuts!! No way are you supposed to remove a mole on your own with a knife or acid!!
The acid was recommended by a doctor.
 
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