"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mole removal creams - do they work?

Master Bates

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I have a couple moles I'd love to get rid of, one that's on my shoulder and is kinda big and dark, the other on my upper arm and just looks like a nasty zit. Both are the kind that protrude from the skin, not the kinda that are flat and only a discoloration. They also have at least one hair growing out of each of them. I see stuff online for mole removal creams, like this and this, but I'm skeptical. Can a simple cream really make a mole just fall off and scab over? Will the hair just disappear along with it? Anyone have experience with this stuff?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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i only knew of wart removal cream. hehe

actually a dermatologist can removal a mole very fast.
 

Jariel

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I keep meaning to get a mole removed, but I admit to being a bit nervous. How do dermatologists go about removing it exactly? Scalpels, lasers, maggots?
 

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it depends on your skin type, i had one i was trying to get rid of went to the dermatalogist im more of a darker skinned so he said it would definately create a scar. for me they said they would use a scalple and the surgery would take about an hour, they cant remove the mole directly so they cut on your face like "()" around the mole and sew the skin back together, he said there would be a scar line on my face and he would provide some cream to make the scar less noticible but it would still be there, ive been looking at those creams that get rid of it off your face but i havent found anyone thats used them so im not willing to risk it.
 

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if its a really ugly mole then a scar is probably better looking. at least you can say you got it in a fight or something. its not a big deal to get one removed. make sure you go a doctor who knows what he's doing. talk to friends family who have gotten the procedure and if they had a doctor that did it right. its really simple and quick. local anaesthetic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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