Mods... WTF?

[ER!C L!VE]

Why aren't the mods stepping in and deleting these negative threads? These threads regarding one pissed off FEMALE member and her perspective on older men dating younger women have little to do with meeting dating and attracting women for the mature man. Moreover, it's bringing everyone down.

OK, so there is ONE long time female member and you mods ares letting her have free reign to say whatever she wants? (flaming members back and fourth) WTF? that's AFC to the core.

What's the bottom line of all these negative ass threads? Older girls hate when older men successfully attract younger women. So, now that we have that established, let's move on, m'kay?


Hey, I have an idea. How about some new Mods? Oh, wait. That's right. You there are no new Mods here. Just the same old ones with the same old perspectives. The same ones who don't date and are in LTRs and/or married. Yea... those guys who are out of the dating game makes them real qualified to give dating advice


Most forums bring in new mods when the old mod can't put in as much time has he'd like. Not here though. Why is that?

Are your egos too big?
Don't think there are qualified people here?

 

[SAYNO]

I agree Wholeheartidly!

This crazy ass B*itch needs to bounce up outta here!

The last thing a man needs to listen to is another women running her stupid mouth about how a man should live his life.

She insists that she's not a feminist, but the handwriting is on the wall:

Feminists enforce the age laws to keep good men single longer so that after they (women) had a million kids, the good men would be available to raise them after mr bad boy runs off.

Its sad that she has opened her legs to so many convicts and now has to raise the children without a father, but she has made her bed and now has to lay in it.


Sayno'

 

[Wyldfire]

Hey, when I started a thread in General Discussion I made the effort to not respond to all the flame baiting and stay on topic. A whole bunch of you guys attacked me unprovoked repeatedly and even though I didn't respond in kind, that thread was locked by a moderator.

I am NOT the one disrupting threads. I make a post on topic and a few morons make PERSONAL ATTACKS on me. I have chosen to go back to responding because ignoring them did nothing to keep a very good thread open. You guys want to make personal attacks, I am going to respond to them. It will ruin threads...but all of YOU have the choice to stop making the personal attacks and insults. If you care about this site you will pressure the idiots to shut up. THEY are the flamebaiters and disruptors and should be banned, if anyone should be.

Furthermore, diablo is the one who does most of the moderating and he happens to be in the middle of a severe hurricane at the moment and probably has no power. Personally, I'm a bit concerned about his safety, which, by the way, is a hell of a lot more important than him being here.

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: I agree Wholeheartidly!

Originally posted by SAYNO
This crazy ass B*itch needs to bounce up outta here!

The last thing a man needs to listen to is another women running her stupid mouth about how a man should live his life.

She insists that she's not a feminist, but the handwriting is on the wall:

Feminists enforce the age laws to keep good men single longer so that after they (women) had a million kids, the good men would be available to raise them after mr bad boy runs off.

Its sad that she has opened her legs to so many convicts and now has to raise the children without a father, but she has made her bed and now has to lay in it.


Sayno'

Gayblo...I have posts in the bible. Do you? I've contributed a hell of a lot more to this site than you have. As is CLEAR in my thread about how dangerous antifeminism can be...I am NOT the problem here. There problem is flamebaiters and trolls like you. YOU should be banned because you are breaking the rules in EVERY post you make.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Yea... those guys who are out of the dating game makes them real qualified to give dating advice

Like riding a bicycle...

 

[Paradox]

If I weren't a real DJ I'd be upset

Eric,

You have some valid points about that thread. Your other points are way off base, immature and uncalled for.

I'm closing the thread for awhile. I'll edit it and reopen it in a few days.

Mature man forum indeed!

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Re: Re: Mods... WTF?

Originally posted by mrRuckus
Like riding a bicycle...

No, it's not.

Most guys come here either after a divorce, breakup, or are having dating issues.

 

[Wyldfire]

If anyone wants to truly understand what is REALLY happening between myself and those I ed up fighting with...read THIS thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81712

I stayed on topic throughout that thread and did not respond to the repeated person attacks against me. Why that thread got locked is beyond me. It was a good topic that NEEDS to be discussed on this site.

When a supposedly grown man is allowed to and supported in calling an innocent 5 year old child names instead of debating the topic, there is clearly a problem. What kind of "Mature Man" attacks an innocent child on a dating forum? Some of you seriously need to pay closer attention to what is going on. I'm NOT the one starting this sh*t. And, unfortunately, attempting to ignore it and let the mods enforce the rules they set forth did no good. I'm still repeatedly flame baited and personally attacked by the same individuals over and over again. Have they been banned? Nope. Because they haven't faced consequences for their lousy behavior it just invites them to continue and worsen their behavior. And then most of you expect me to just sit back and take it. Sorry, but that's not going to happen.

These guys attacking me constantly contribute NOTHING of value to this site whatsoever. All they do is whine about feminism and how evil women are all the time. They spread negativity and offer no tips or valuable advice. It's all bitter, negative comments...no problem solving help or anything. At least I DO make the effort to offer sincere advice and input to questions instead of insulting the one who asked the question and telling them to give up.

 

[SAYNO]

Like Someone else said:

Wyldfire quit all the sorry antics, I don't ggive a rats ass if your in the bible or not you are a westernized femskank feminist!

Like someone else said:


Your ***** holds no power here!


Sayno'

 

[Wyldfire]

Re: Like Someone else said:

Originally posted by SAYNO
Wyldfire quit all the sorry antics, I don't ggive a rats ass if your in the bible or not you are a westernized femskank feminist!

Like someone else said:


Your ***** holds no power here!


Sayno'

Flamebait...you are in violation of the forum rules. You should be banned.

Is this an antifeminist forum or a dating forum? It's a dating forum. If you want to discuss the evils of feminism you need to go to an antifeminist forum, not here. In fact, the mods should ban all discussion of feminism because you radical masculinists are RUINING the place with your hatred, bitterness and ranting. All your posts are full of negativity.

 

[Paradox]

Ok I am also closing this thread (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81712) until I have time to sort this out.


Yes Erik & Wyld I do have a life, a job and several women to deal with.

 

[drZaius09]

I agree 100% that women gallivanting around these boards flies right in the face of everything this place is supposed to be about. I agree 100% that it is unequivocally AFC for the mods to allow this to happen, specifically given that this forum in particular is designated as the "Mature MAN" forum.

But the greatest embarassment this board has ever suffered is the inclusion of a MARRIED COUPLE within it's ranks. Nothing could be more indicative of the pussification of this community, and it is disgusting. And to further throw acid on the wound, we take the husband and we make him a mod on the mature man forum!?! Can anything be more of a travesty against what we are trying to achieve here?

 

[Paradox]

Originally posted by drZaius09
I agree 100% that women gallivanting around these boards flies right in the face of everything this place is supposed to be about. I agree 100% that it is unequivocally AFC for the mods to allow this to happen, specifically given that this forum in particular is designated as the "Mature MAN" forum.

But the greatest embarassment this board has ever suffered is the inclusion of a MARRIED COUPLE within it's ranks. Nothing could be more indicative of the pussification of this community, and it is disgusting. And to further throw acid on the wound, we take the husband and we make him a mod on the mature man forum!?! Can anything be more of a travesty against what we are trying to achieve here?

LOL agreed.

Whenever someone here gets into a LTR or even worse get's married they should be banned. :woo:

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Originally posted by Paradox
LTR or even worse get's married they should be banned. :woo:

Naw, however, stepping down from a moderator postion and allowing new blood and someone playing the field would benefit the members more.

 

[drZaius09]

Originally posted by Paradox
Whenever someone here gets into a LTR or even worse get's married they should be banned. :woo:

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic, but my point is that people come here with specific objectives in mind, and they are usually highly impressionable as to how to achieve them. To have a mod who is married is not the kind of influence they need given those objectives. In fact, it is quite actually the polar opposite of the influence they need.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Paradox
Ok I am also closing this thread (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81712) until I have time to sort this out.


Yes Erik & Wyld I do have a life, a job and several women to deal with.

Paradox, no one said you didn't have a life. The fact is, however, that it takes more than one to argue on a forum. It's ridiculous for anyone to sit back and blame just me, which is what keeps happening. I can't help it if some men on this forum can't deal with women online. But quite honestly...if they can't deal with a few women on this site then how the hell will they deal with women in person? And again, I have ALWAYS offered sincere and helpful advice to many guys on here. Why should I be expected to put up with constant flame baiting and personal attacks JUST because I am a woman? Would the moderators tolerate any of the guys being treated that way? No, they wouldn't.

This group of raving masculinists is encouraging the guys here to blame feminism for their failures with women. It's easy to blame everything but their own insecurities, lack of effort and mistakes for their misfortunes with women. However, when push comes to shove...if it really were "all feminism's fault" then NO men would get anywhere with women, and we all know that's not the case.

You guys need to do something about these guys who are encouraging newbies to view themselves as victims. Since when are "DJs" supposed to take on the victim mentality? They aren't. Since when are DJ's supposed to be so damn negative about EVERYTHING?

Yes, I allow myself to be sucked into the nonsense, but a lot of that is because the moderators aren't enforcing their rules. If you don't ban people who flame bait and make personal attacks then pray tell, what do you want me to do? Say nothing? I tried that in the thread I linked to. Nothing was done to the disruptors and flame baiters. Nothing is ever done about them even though the TOS CLEARLY states flamebaiting is NOT allowed.

 

[TooColdUlrick]

i'm with ER!C....

just ban her. who cares if she has something that's in the bible. who cares if she has 6,000 posts.

she's a twisted, illogical, washed up, chick, waaaaay past her prime and in total denile, phantom boyfriend, and passive aggressive at its absolute finest!

her 'advice' is worthless. the only reason, however, for keeping her around, is to demonstrate to the younger guys, WHAT THEY SHOULD BE RUNNING AWAY FROM!

 

[Wyldfire]

flamebaiting is against the rules.

 

[ketostix]

Wyldfire you're the cause of any flamebaiting. You've pissed a lot of guys off here with your "opinions" and antics. The only person I saw really being negative or bringing up negativity was you. You instigated it and now, just like a typical female, you deny any responsibilty and cry to the mods. I'll admit some of the posters are a little harsh, but really it's impossible to reason with you so you can't blame them.

 

[iqqi]

Originally posted by drZaius09
my point is that people come here with specific objectives in mind, and they are usually highly impressionable as to how to achieve them. To have a mod who is married is not the kind of influence they need given those objectives. In fact, it is quite actually the polar opposite of the influence they need.

some people's goal here is to find that one successful relationship, while avoiding the pitfalls along the way. i don't think that what you come here for, dictates everyone.

marriages are successful relationships. well, half of them, haha.

to each their own.