"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mods, Clean This Place Up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

phatboi408

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Maybe we need to sticky things more like instead of having it in the Bible but also STICKIED in the forums. Because some people never look at the bible.

Have forums just for the bible stuff, sub-forums. The apprentice is not going to work that good online but better in real life. Maybe if we know some lairs that anyone can join in your area you can post their links up, would be better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This is my first time in the HS section!

I wish I had game back them, or maybe not I would have ended up having a kid or something...

I know it is corny, but I've also been thinking of leaving once I have 2000 posts, but who knows...
 

phatboi408

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WHo cares about 2000 or 1 posts. It doesn't matter. What matters is that all the good stuff from the bible and this site remains so poeple can come back to it.
TO be honest this site should be runed like mystery's forum site. Because they don't mess around. I know I just got warned once just about a minute ago for posting something.
 

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MikeViper that's been asked before and its a no. The REAL question is: Who the hell is VirtualMind? IT bothers me I don't know his old sosuave account, according to AC he was an old respected member. -_-
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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